ok i been with this girl for 4 years and a half we brorke up 2 weeks ago 2 days ago we had sex and said we love each other and miss each other then a guy calls her up and she said we shold do something the next day with him.. im not dumb it looks like she found someone allready. she also said i was the best in bed with anyother guy in her past. she said this one day when we where both drunk when we still togather. now we are going out for lanch tommorow. is she just using me ? and also when we say each other today she said do you miss me when i give her a hug wtf is that why is she acting like that any advise out there? i do miss her and have feeling for her but im confuse
2006-09-12 16:32:48 · 8 answers · asked by abcboyohboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop the confusion, by ending the relationship dont get stuck with this woman
she is a whore dont you see that
you deserve someone better
there are thousands of better girls out there dont get stuck on this one
she is trash
cant you see that
she is unfaithful,undecided and confused youre relationship is bound to end anyway
end it now
2006-09-12 16:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. I know how you feel. I was with my bf just a little bit longer than you two, but our relationship ended five months ago. I do not think that it is her new bf that called. You broke up two weeks ago.. come on.... that would be a knife straight in the heart... Also, she invited you to do something with them, so I do not think that its her new bf. She might be confused at this point. I am not sure why you broke up, but maybe she thought that she would be better off without you, and now that you are not there she misses you. It is a very complicated topic to comment on without knowing the details.
This guy that I dated for a long time, we were trying to brake up for a whole year but we just couldnt be appart. We didn't have any problems (major problems). But we finally made it official in March, and decided that no matter how much we crave eachother that we cannot have make-up sex. So we talk to each other, c eachother but not a lot, and that is it.
Try to give her some space for a while. Even if it is a new boyfriend if she loved you she will not be able to move on with him. I tried dating a guy after my brake up and it was impossible... too painful to kiss someone elses lips....
GOOD LUCK !!!!
2006-09-12 23:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by SOMEONE OUT THERE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I've been staring at your question for a few days now. And my first thought was, he's kidding right. Well, here it is again today so I thought I'd read it ove a little more carefully.
I would appear to me, mind you I'm older, both of you are really young. So, don't take this the wrong way, it is not possible for either of you to really KNOW YOURSELF let alone someone else.
Find out who you are, your dreams, goals and then figure out why YOOU are searching for LOVE at such a young age. There is plenty of time for a love life. But, no one can truly LOVE another until THEY know & LOVE themselves.
End your confusion now. Date see other ppl. She is obviously, no confusion there. You said it. Have fun, enjoy life and meet NEW ppl.
And when you get older & wiser your choices will be better.
2006-09-12 23:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far away from her.
Don't call her, don't text her, don't nothing with her. Avoid her for two weeks; see how many times she tries to contact you. Let her know what it is like to miss you. If she really cares, she'll realize that she misses you and may want you back. If not, move on. There are tons of girls out there.
Sex is only part of a relationship; if it's the only reason two people are together they won't be together for long.
2006-09-12 23:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't confused dude. You know the deal. She's playing games. She likes the attention (and sex). You need to get a taste of a new woman to get things into perspective! No offense, but right now, you are a toy.
2006-09-12 23:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communications is needed. Ask her in a calm voice any or all of these:
"What possible outcomes could you want from me going to lunch with this person?" Do you want a 3-some? Do you want me to see who you were with, or leaving me for? Would you want me to bring you to lunch with another girl? How would that make you feel?
2006-09-12 23:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by MikeQuestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been here before, you guys broke up because she likes another guy and wants to see how it will go with him but they always come running back
2006-09-13 00:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by jonnybanas18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her. get a new gf if shes acting like that shes using u
2006-09-12 23:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥bambii_xoxo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋