Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

my girlfriend of just a year and a half came and told me yesterday she wants to have a baby.....were both 16 yrs old and i actually want to have one to...this is the gal that im gonna marry....i just have no idea what to do or say....and if i had it what would i do....please help me

2006-09-12 16:05:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was wondering if any of you ladies ever would date a guy thats bald.

2006-09-12 16:05:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it like when u like this boy .he say he love u but , never have time for u .u know he play foot ball a lote but he say u are his angel wat do u do

2006-09-12 16:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by kimberry 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl kinda is quiet, but when i talk to her she is more "talk - a - tive", I really like and want to kiss her, but how do i talk her into dating?

2006-09-12 16:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by Head Master 2 in Singles & Dating

Its a 5months relationship...I would say it should be honeymoon period still. But my BF stopped dating me on weekdays since i started hanging out at his place every Fri to Sun. Shouldn't he has the desire to see me?
He is not caught up with work...he spend most of his weekdays with his friends, not even a single weekday is for me.
It seems like we are weekend couple...if he miss me eveyday, why dont he just date me at least 1 weekday? Only source of communication on weekday, is a few sms of 'Miss U' 'Good Nite'....

PS: Oh yes, he is dating me tonite for dinner & drinks, should I make myself so available?

2006-09-12 16:04:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 16:04:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend husband is sending her through a lot.He don't want her to have any friends,he also don't want her to go any where.Every time she gets on the phone he gets mad and start saying negative things.He also gets mad at her when she goes by her family and start saying negative things and he also say that she is going by her family so that she can be with her other man.He says that her family is helping her cheat on him.They have 3 kids together,one girl and 2 boys.He treats their daughter good which is the oldest and he treats the baby boy good too,but treat the oldest boy different from the other 2.If the oldest son needs a hair cut,she has to bring him to the shop where her brother cuts hair at so her brother can cut his hair.But the thing is that her husband knows how to cut hair.He cuts his own hair every other day but don't cut the oldest son's hair.He needs a hair cut now real bad,he have not had a hair cut in 2 week now but his father's hair is cut.

2006-09-12 16:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by mrs.pierre3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She's 18, i'm 16; we're both lesbians.

I'm in college, and she's joining the airforce, so we're both more mature than our age.

Whenever i see her she hugs me, and she kissed me on my birthday, but acted like it was a joke. i don't know if that means she likes me or not. She's really hard to get to know because she's kind of defensive. I know she's been hurt badly in the past, and I would never want to cause her more pain.

I love her, but I also value her freindship. I don't want to ruin that by telling her I'm attracted to her. (She already knows that i love her to death, but as a friend).

I don't want this girl to leave without knowing how much I love her, even if I'm the one that ends up hurt. But I also don't want to cause any problems for her, so if it's in her best interest, I'll stay quiet.

So what should I do? And if I should tell her, how?

2006-09-12 16:02:14 · 22 answers · asked by Lizzi 2 in Singles & Dating

we grew up in the same house and it was always positive and warm in the house. my parents were wonderful although had expectations for us. (like parents should) my brother who is an adult and has a family decided he does not want anything to do with our mother because she let our oldest brother move in with her. he say's things like this to me "i can't wait to see the maggots crawling out of my moms dead corpse!" and "i can't wait to piss on both their graves"! this talk is very desturbing to me and i don't like it. my mother has always been a wonderful mother. my father passed on 13 years ago. my father was a hard worker and provided excellent for his family. my brother is on drugs and drinks 24-7 he also use to warship satin!

2006-09-12 16:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by nakita 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I try to avoid him. I can't talk to him and tell him that I don't like him because It will be kind of embarrasing and people might see me talking to him and think that we are boy friend and girl friends.

2006-09-12 16:01:45 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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There is nothing cooler then to save yourself for your spouse!

2006-09-12 16:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by Lorla 4 in Singles & Dating

I love my wife, but she only speaks to me when there is a financial issue at hand, wanting me to solve it (I always do) good ol' money bags husband, this is the ONLTY time she speaks to me and NEVER NEVER touches me or allows me to rouch her without acting exasperated. Help we have 4 kids still at home, but I get sick of it.

2006-09-12 15:58:04 · 41 answers · asked by kiny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Shallow meaning concerned more with the physical and having higher standards. Women are on the whole much more shallow than men. Consider the following:

-Some women spend hours getting ready for social events and put on pounds of make-up each year, no men do so
-The fashion industry is driven and largely managed by women
-Women care more about how they are dressed
-Women care more about how men are dressed than men care about how women are dressed
-Women complain about bad boys but still chase after them and won't give nice guys the time of day
-Groupies scream in the mere presence of people like Justin Timberlake, show me any guy that would do this for any famous female
-Men will by and large will go out with not so good looking women, but not so good looking men or unclean men cannot get a date at all
-Women are much more selective than men in general
-The largest demographic of singles in America are overweight men

Women complain about men being shallow, but it seems hypocritical.

2006-09-12 15:57:18 · 15 answers · asked by bigbadleroybrown 1 in Singles & Dating

I like hanging out with my husband and his friends sometimes but I need a shopping buddy! Is anybody out ther from paducah, kentucky? Ilve to go to concerts or just jam out, and talk about girl stuff

2006-09-12 15:56:50 · 2 answers · asked by amber r 1 in Friends

why is it that the only guy i like doesnt really like me back and the guys i dont like at all like me?

2006-09-12 15:56:40 · 8 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

girl problem?
One of my good friends as acted different around me lately. Last year she would talk to me, steal my hat on occasion put her arm over me every once in a while. Then I come back to school and she rests her arm on my knee, steals my hat and wears it for as long as she can. Gave me a new necklace when my old one broke. I put my hand on her shoulder and she flat out hugged me. Once, I had a small hole in my shirt and she starts ripping it wider. Doodes on my notebook. But my diemma is that she does hug some other of her friends but not nearly what ive been getting. Constantly smiles. Her favorite person qualities fit my description

The thing is thatis she just being more deeply friendly or does she like me

but shes bi and has asked out her best friend

the last few days she hasnt been doing it though

and other people have told me shes flirting so im not the only one seeing it

2006-09-12 15:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-12 15:55:53 · 14 answers · asked by mrs.howard 2 in Singles & Dating

Yup, It's me again. Please check my last q to answer this q.
If I want to pass a note to a girl at the end of the class, how do I approach her? Should I just go up to her and give it to her or should I ask my friend to do it for me.
Also what should I write in the note, should it be a formal (English) letter informing the said lady of the like I have taken towards her or should it be informal telling her about me. Anyway tell me which ever is better because I haven't had enough experience in such matters in the U.S.
Thanks
P.S. Should I write it or Type it

2006-09-12 15:55:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 15:55:14 · 7 answers · asked by ping gaik mei 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like ur not being a lesbo. but like meredith in grey's anatomy. she knits and its called like silibit or something. wen u try to not get involved with anymore guys? wat is that called

2006-09-12 15:54:33 · 20 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend's 17 yrs old lesbian daughter bite her wrist while having an argument! she said that her mother don't love her and she's jealous to her older sister. after one day she gave her mom a gift and on the card it says "sorry" is this true or she's just playing with her mom? my friend cries almost everyday for what her daughter did to her.

2006-09-12 15:54:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this guy were talking and he's like your the prettiest girl i've known in my life i like you alot and im like awwww and he asked me if i like him and im like umm no sorry( i was in a panic nobody has ever asked me that before) and then i asked him if he was ok and he hasnt talked to me i feel so bad should i?
after a while i told him that im really really sorry and i just dunt like him in that kind of way and i hope we can just stay friends...but i still feel bad
( i know im not the prettiest girl out there)

2006-09-12 15:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Friends

be honest

2006-09-12 15:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do guys like in a girl

2006-09-12 15:53:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how does one know when a relationship is truly over???i brokeup with my bf a few months back and well we kept in touch all summer and i'm leaving for the af soon and i told him i'll keep in touch and i sent him an email just saying hi and he seems to get angry when i tell him life is moving on he doesn't want me to move on from what we had but he ignores me he never writes and when he does it's not positive and i don't like taking crap i still love him but i'm feel ing like he's playing mind games???so i'm asking ladies how do you know when an ex is truly over you but he can't let go but he won't keep in contact to make it work??and i'm not one of those people who sit around and wait for a miracle!!just honest answers please it will really help??thanks

2006-09-12 15:53:13 · 9 answers · asked by USAF1 3 in Singles & Dating

I could think of same oldies like wrist watch, diamond pendant etc Can anybody suggest something else? Thanks

2006-09-12 15:53:09 · 22 answers · asked by singhjg 1 in Weddings

im married 4 a year.my husband watches adult movies.hes has every physical relation wid me...sexual....but he hasnt seen my body .i want him to see my body.today i asked him that u watch adult movies n u see other girls everything but u havnt seen mine.he became angry n shouted at me n said dont argue wid me.i feel like a lot crying!!!!!wat shud i do?

2006-09-12 15:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did any of you fall in love, kept it platonic, and still had the same intensity of feellings for The One for longer that two years? How strong a platonic love (aka emotional relationship) can be? Who does it better a guy or a girl?

2006-09-12 15:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been close friends with a girl @ work for a year. We get together a few times a month for dinner or drinks or whatever. A few months ago, I aksed her out on a date. Niether of us were seeing anyone but she said "no". I accepted this, started seeing other people, she and I are still friends, and still hang out.

Recently, she started sending some mixed signals. She hides her relationships from me, is uncomfortable hearing about me dating, doesn't like the fact that I go out with another girl from work from time to time. When we hang out, I sometimes ask her to invite other work friends-she says they said "no" but I later find out she never asked them.

I feel like she has hidden feelings for me, why else would we be such good friends but these things happen?? But I asked her out once, so why then did she say "no"?? If her feelings changed, I think she should say something clearer. I feel as tho I got rejected once, moved on, so why do I want to start the cycle again??

2006-09-12 15:52:30 · 1 answers · asked by tipple 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he told me that he needs ta get to know me before he would ever hook up with me right...? and keeps talking about prom...well i was talking to him and he keeps bringing up these other girls that he supposably likes, i like him so much everytime he brings up another girl it brings me almost to tears. and homecoming is coming up and he is the only person i wanna go with but he told me he is bringing some other chick named lauren, so i need help.....!

2006-09-12 15:51:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating