how does one know when a relationship is truly over???i brokeup with my bf a few months back and well we kept in touch all summer and i'm leaving for the af soon and i told him i'll keep in touch and i sent him an email just saying hi and he seems to get angry when i tell him life is moving on he doesn't want me to move on from what we had but he ignores me he never writes and when he does it's not positive and i don't like taking crap i still love him but i'm feel ing like he's playing mind games???so i'm asking ladies how do you know when an ex is truly over you but he can't let go but he won't keep in contact to make it work??and i'm not one of those people who sit around and wait for a miracle!!just honest answers please it will really help??thanks
2006-09-12 15:53:13 · 9 answers · asked by USAF1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we broke up BECAUSE HE CHEATED ON MY WITH MY FRIEND AND i forgave him but come on after he cheated i took him back and he still hung around the girl so i'm not dumb and i'm not playing mind games i was real the whole time and i gave him a second chance
2006-09-12 16:25:53 · update #1
Just go on with your life. You make the positive effort of keeping ties to him. If he wants to be an *** about it, let him go.
2006-09-12 15:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over when you say to yourself its over
its over when you can smile about it
when you no longer feel sorry
when you no longer feel a thing for that somebody you once loved
for you i think the relationship is over
for him he is still on the process of letting go
youre not helping him by sticking around
help him and you finish this problem by not writing , seeing or talking to him at all
cut all your connections
thats how you truly end it, dont see each other again
and one day you both will wake up facing each of your life on your own with somebody else or with a new horizon
2006-09-12 15:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over if he's playing mind games and you see it ... you may still love him but he's showing you a side of him that's really childish ... i would move on and keep in touch a bit ... but jut let it go, it ended so let it end.
2006-09-12 15:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel it over it mostly over take from someboby who beam thought. i am a kin of personlike u ,there u me too.
2006-09-12 16:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by kimberry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you broke up with him so maybe you should consider why you broke up with him.....and are still keeping in contact...is he the only one playing games?????????????? i bet you are not the only one confused!!!!! and that my dear probably expalins his awkward actions!!!!
2006-09-12 15:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GAME IS OVER. START WITH A NEW GUY.
2006-09-12 16:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE RELATIONSHIP SOUNDS LIKE IT IS OVER.
2006-09-12 15:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by happybunnyjg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU BROKE UP WITH HIM !!! Why should he hang around and be played by you????
2006-09-12 15:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont. it just happens.
2006-09-12 15:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by coreyrate92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋