honeymoon period but no dates unless its weekend? normal?

Question

Its a 5months relationship...I would say it should be honeymoon period still. But my BF stopped dating me on weekdays since i started hanging out at his place every Fri to Sun. Shouldn't he has the desire to see me?
He is not caught up with work...he spend most of his weekdays with his friends, not even a single weekday is for me.
It seems like we are weekend couple...if he miss me eveyday, why dont he just date me at least 1 weekday? Only source of communication on weekday, is a few sms of 'Miss U' 'Good Nite'....

PS: Oh yes, he is dating me tonite for dinner & drinks, should I make myself so available?

Answer 1

Geez Louise....I can't believe he's lasted 5 months. Do you stress over every little detail of your relationship like this? You are there the entire freakin' weekend, what do you expect him to do during the week? Guys love their gals, but they've got to have away time with the guys or even alone on a regular basis; otherwise, you're going to drive him away. Girls just don't seem to understand this. So don't try. It's a guy thing, live with it or live without him sooner than later.

Answer 2

Your honeymoon period is a little different from mine..

Honeymoon period is usually the period where:
- they want to see you everyday..
- they see you as miss perfect and you can do no wrong
- when you make them angry, they just forget about it
- you do not need to eat but survive on love alone..
- you will NEVER quarrel

And usually, honeymoon period is a mere 3 months my girl... 5 months is already way over honeymoon period.. :P

If you want to meet up more than once a week, that is something you should talk it out then guess why he is doing this.

Some people are just not needy for attention and need their freedom to do what they want on most days of the week. That doesnt mean they dun love you.. but yes, it means they value freedom more than love.. can you take that?

If you can, then try to compromise and work things out.

If you can't, then you are better off going out with someone who wants to meet you every single day.

Dun expect him to change overnight though.. leapord never changes its spots.. they wun change just cos they love you ;) cos if that is the case, you could change and stop expecting him to meet since you love him :P

Answer 3

i think he just think u r always available / 365days free for him...

let him knew that u r not free... ask him
1-why only dated u on weekends???

2-did he missed u on the next day(why no calls or sms)???

3-for a normal couple there will stay in touch every single day...

good luck

step

Answer 4

If you don't want to ask him why, then you can date him during weekday. Then probably you will find out why he don't date you during weekday.