What to Write?

Question

Yup, It's me again. Please check my last q to answer this q.
If I want to pass a note to a girl at the end of the class, how do I approach her? Should I just go up to her and give it to her or should I ask my friend to do it for me.
Also what should I write in the note, should it be a formal (English) letter informing the said lady of the like I have taken towards her or should it be informal telling her about me. Anyway tell me which ever is better because I haven't had enough experience in such matters in the U.S.
Thanks
P.S. Should I write it or Type it

Answer 1

Egad, man! If you're going to take the trouble to write something, and write it well, don't blow the effect by just walking up to her and handing it to her, then you look like an ultra-shy geek. The friend idea is not much better; that's going to be the romantic equivilant of "check this box if you like me".

If you want to do something out of the ordinary, mail it to her. Use some nice stationary...nothing frilly, mind you, but don't just send plain white paper or lined notebook paper. You know her parents will be checking the mailbox, not her; so that will be a double-whammy for you....you get to her, and you look classy in front of her folks without even meeting them yet. The best part about writing to her, is she gets to control who she tells....nobody if she likes. Girls like that sort of internal power, to choose who is allowed in, and not. So by making your gesture personal, you are sure to pique her interest.

And DON'T write about you, unless it is about how she makes you feel....NOT YOUR FEELINGS, but how she makes you feel. If you're a good writer, you'll know how to explain the difference. Tell her some things you've observed about her that are positive and endearing....general things, especially things you have noticed when she is interacting with other people, so she doesn't think you're stalking her when she's alone.

And write it. Take your time to make it legible....very legible. And here's a bonus tip: Don't make it end neatly at the bottom of the page, even if you've got to ramble a bit to do so....it shows her that what you're writing is more important than ending it at the bottom of the page.

Hope this helps, kid. Good luck.

Answer 2

DON'T GET YOUR FRIEND TO DO IT BECAUSE SHE WILL ASSUME THAT YOU ARE VERY IMMATURE AND SILLY. YOU SHOULD WRITE THE LETTER YOURSELF (NO TYPING) BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE IT A LITTLE MORE PERSONAL.

DON'T TELL HER THAT YOU LIKE HER YET BECAUSE ALL YOU KNOW IS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HER AND GET TO KNOW HER BETTER, YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW IF YOU LIKE HER.

TRY SPEAKING TO HER FIRST IN CASUAL PASSING AND THEN GO FROM THERE. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

OMG how many answers do you need for this same question????