ok, i have this friend. He was one of my best friends until we had a tiny fight. I try to talk to him but he wont listen to me. i want to say sorry but he just keeps ignoring me. we've been best buds since 5th grade and we play video games together. I really want to be his best bud again. Btw, he's also one of my only friends too. Wat should i do?
2006-09-12 16:26:05 · 19 answers · asked by UselessID 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
UMM WELL JUST..............lets seeee ummmmmmmm................................ just wait a little then tell him ur sorry and wutever u did... if he doesn't answer just get a new friend
2006-09-13 11:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by raymond92345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what the fight was about, but it seems to me, that the fight was NOT a tiny thing to ur friend..... was it ?? did it get personal ? and did you step over the line ? did you suggest or yell ur point ? think real hard about how it all came down.... then go from there.... ur bud might have to take the time to re-define just what friendship is..... and maybe you had better do the same..... step back and let ur bud take a deep breath and give him time to come to term with what ever it was that made him walk away from the relationship..... you keep pushing, you might just push him away forever........ God bless
2006-09-12 23:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do in the fight? was it your fault? Try and see how you would feel if the situation was reversed and what would you like him to do.
Maybe he feels as if he has grown out of the friendship and he is using this "tiny" fight as an excuse to not be your friend anymore.
Other than that I suggest you give him some space like for 2 - 3 days (coz no one wants a pushy friend) and then after this time talk to him as if nothing happened, if he still doesn't talk to you ask him straight out if there is something he would like to talk about and get to the real problem and apologise if you have to.
2006-09-12 23:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop to say sorry, maybe he's just trying what you can do, or challenging your true friendship with him. You said you were best buds for a long time, and for that long years definitely it cannot easily ruin by small misunderstanding.
2006-09-12 23:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by taz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to cool down. Once you think it's been enough time, maybe try talking to him again. If it's still impossible to talk to him, try writing him a letter or sending him an e-mail or a msg somehow on the net (hi5, yahoo, etc) Hope he talks to you soon... Good luck.
2006-09-12 23:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to cool down first. During this period, you can still be his friend, and act like normal. Do not pester him too much as this will only irritates him. Treat him as usual and see how things go. Good luck!
2006-09-12 23:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him he could hear you, he cant mute you forever. tell him a memory that you had with him and tell him that you want to regret whatever hes mad at you about. he has to listen to you.
get his attention and apologize. send him a note that you are really sorry and you wish you could go back and never said it. if he is really mad at you he will have to comment you on it. he will eventually talk to you. it might take a week. it also might take a month. you don't know. don't stop trying to talk to him. that way he'll know that you really are sorry and want to be friends again
2006-09-12 23:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are sorry and that you miss the friendship. If this isn't good enough for your friend then go out of your way to make new friends
2006-09-12 23:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space and time to think things through if he is really youre friend he will miss you too, and he will also feel the void when youre not there
give him time
maybe 2 weeks , then write him a letter telling you how sincerely sorry you are
you have to wait, you really cant force someone
2006-09-12 23:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gots an e-mail address send him an e-mail telling him your sorry. If he doesn't, just give him time to come up to you. If he wants to be your friend he'll come to you since you've already tried talking to him and he won't listen.
2006-09-12 23:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you wanna be mates again, and if he doesnt talk to you, tell him that the fight wasn't worth breaking the friendship, and buy him a gift, if that dont work, try going to his house and sit down to have a civillized talk with him.
2006-09-12 23:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by mariah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋