this is kind of a messed up situation. i was going out with a girl for a year and a half, and one day she starts getting wierd even though as a whole things were still good. then she went away for a day without telling me. i waited for her at her apartment and when i saw her she happened to be dressed nice. i got this feeling she was cheating and i kind of forced her to kiss me, almost as if to prove that she didn't. we went into her place and made out. i went down on her, and we had sex. she was clean - in fact, almost out of the shower clean. and it was very passionate.
we broke up about a month later and i now know she had cheated on me that very day.
so my question is, what was going through her mind while i was going down on her?
2006-09-12 16:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she more than likely felt sorry for you, which is why she let you do it. It may have been passionate for you but not necisarly for her.
2006-09-12 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was loving and hurting all at once. It was so passionate because you both wanted it to be. You wanted to believe that this was it.
I feel for you both cause you loved each other so much. She felt dirty and insignificant after it was said and done. She only let you do this because she felt like she owed it to you. I mean afterall she assumingly just cheated on you. She figured why not let you take advantage of her the way she took advantage of you.
But you had to have loved her so much. Because you knew that she cheated but yet you went along with it all. I feel bad for both you.
I know it is all in the past but you both left feeling like a piece of "meat". I dont care how many mistakes anyone has made they should never feel like they arent important as anyone else.
You both left the relationship feeling like neither of you mattered.
Why does love have to hurt?
2006-09-12 16:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is it couldve been one of a few things, maybe some combined: 1-she was imagining u were who she just slept with, 2-she was still horny, 3-she wanted to debate who was better, and maybe use that as a thought of if she should break up with u, 4- she may have been high or drunk. She sounds like trash. Just forget her and move on. U'll find someone better. There's plenty of girls that cheat, and plenty that dont.
2006-09-12 16:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one to answer. No one really knows what is going on in someone's head. I would imagine she would have felt guilty for cheating on you. But like I say, it is hard to tell.
2006-09-12 16:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a female, w/that type of long term relationship i would have to say that it was a charity *%#! or one last fling to say goodbye. im sorry that happened to you. she obviously has no scruples or didnt value your relationship. she should of had enough balls to break up with you 1st before cheating on you. know that dog's never learn new tricks...i.e. she will do this again and again thru out her life to all she meets.
2006-09-12 16:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by love2bsmg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow in that moment that only thought is enjoy it and It' s very exciting to see the face of him looking at you to be sure you are enjoying it.
2006-09-12 16:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by CHICA24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE THINKING "Im glad i took that shower before I came home!"
Wow twice in one night!!! Must be my lucky day, Damn does this make me a slut?...............naaaa Because guys do it all the time."
2006-09-12 16:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was prolly enjoying it. When someone is going down on you, you don't really think of anything else.
2006-09-12 16:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't love you, she would have told you straight away and dumped you, but obviously she had strong feelings for you.
2006-09-12 16:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by deedee19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could have been alot of things , I would hope the foremost was GUILT
2006-09-12 16:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋