he is such hot stuff? It seems like every guy that I have met online over the past few months (about 40) are still members. I know that I am still on there myself but then after all I am the rejectee, a loser as far as guys are concerned because I dont make big money or have an important job or don't share their interest. However most of the guys I have met were quality guys with good jobs, nice cars, attractive, educated, etc and they rejected me after an hour coffee date. With the number of college educated high wage earning women that are attractive and fit into what these guys are looking for, why are these guys still online? Is no one good enough for them. I find this really odd. Only about 5 guys I have met are no longer on the dating service I use.
2006-09-12 16:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You;ve noticed this too, eh? I have been on a dating service on-line for about two years (on and off, not constant). I'll meet about 5 or 6 men and nothing comes of the dates. Then I take a break for a few months and come back to try again. There are the same old ones....still on there. The funny thing is some of these guys have been on there for YEARS! I met my last serious relationship on line about 6 years ago. We were together for four years, and then he went on to a younger woman. So I thought I'd try the on-line singles again. The same men I had read profiles for 6 years ago are still there!!!
The only possible explanations I have come up with are: They are players. They are losers. They are tooooo damn picky. And my personal favorite....they have some very big character flaw.
2006-09-12 16:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Find a different dating service.
2. The guys could be lying and are not really all that!
3. I'd be curious to know what they are really looking for. It may be different than what you are looking for in a relationship.
2006-09-12 23:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Scottish Dachsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was on Yahoo personals for about a year, enjoying meeting alot of people. I had alot of fun. Maybe thats why they are still on it. Oh, I'm not a stud, so looks really aren't as important as you think. For alot of people personality is more important. I met my girlfriend at the gym, not on line.
2006-09-12 23:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cuz ur still listed on a personals site doesn't mean ur still looking for a gf/bf. I am still listed on lots of them and am in a relationship. I just never got around to deleting the profiles.
2006-09-12 23:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep looking there is someone out there for you somewhere
2006-09-12 23:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by SANDY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋