2006-09-12 17:15:02 · 21 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its not my situation im just curious...
2006-09-12 17:18:51 · update #1
love them even more
2006-09-12 17:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not really worry about it to much, they will come around. You have to also put into perspective is the person that you are dating the youngest in the family. If so that could be the main reason right there. The rents just might not want to give them up right now no matter the age of the person.
Cook them dinner take it from there if that does not work maybe you can try somehting nice like take the mom out for a day with you to a movie. Justhave small talk as well that migth break the tension. I hadthe same problem awhile ago and it just took time for them to get use to me in that persons life.
*em*
2006-09-12 17:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by *em* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its like this you can still love that person an also learn to love that persons family that doesnt like you now i no that you are like now thats crazy but its not once they no that they are not scary you and see that your are not going anywhere they will then have a change of heart or mind so go right ahead and if it gets worst talk to your partner an try to work something out.
2006-09-12 17:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by karey s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stick it out.Are you going to give up the person that you love becasue someone else doesnt approve?Let me tell you my mother-in-law didnt like me at first either she would leave mean messages on my answering machine and call me mean names and when i would call the house for him she would say he doesnt have time for you you do know his kids are here visiting and hang up the phone.ya straight up ***** but i stuck in there and we were married a year later and now she loves me.he is the baby of the family and no one was good enough for him but i changed all that and not by kissing her *** i stuck my ground and so did he.im going on vacation with her by ourselfs next month so see persistants pays off.give it all you have love him more than you have loved anyone show then who is in chargeYOU THATS WHO YOU go girl get what you deserve.
2006-09-12 17:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by queen4clewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a horrible situation because your s.o. might end up in the unfortunate situation of being forced to choose between him or you. That being said, my g.f. was in this situation and i'm glad that she was strong enough to stick with me. Our love is strong and we were able to survive the storm long enough for my parents to come around and treat her like family. It is tough but if the love is real then i say it is worth the fight. If not, run like hell.
2006-09-12 17:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by gradient descent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a tricky one, but I've been handling it for 3 years myself. Just basically, you have to TRY to get invovled in with what they do. Try to fit in conversation if ever at a dinner table or a living room get-together. Whenever I had this problem, I showed exactly what I wanted her parents to see. It doesnt hurt sometimes to lie either. All you have to do, is try, try try. But whatever you do, dont give up. A relationship that ends over "parental back up" just doesnt sound right.
2006-09-12 17:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by midnight3_love4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALL YOU CAN DO IS HOPE AND PRAY THAT ONE DAY THEY WILL COME AROUND AND SEE YOU FOR THE WONDERFUL PERSON THAT YOU ARE. IF IT CAUSES TOO MANY PROBLEMS THEN MAYBE YOU AND YOUR SIG. OTHER SHOULD HAVE A TALK WITH THE PARENTS AND FIND OUT WHERE THE REAL ISSUE IS STEMMING FROM AND HOW YOU ALL CAN GET PAST IT. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR SILLINESS.
2006-09-12 17:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are truly in love, like spending the rest of your life with someone kind of love, it doesn't matter what his/her family thinks of you. You can be cordial around each other when you have to be. You don't have to be best friends with them. Just don't voice your opinions about his/her family if you're truly in love.
2006-09-12 17:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna difficult to win his parent's hearts, but it worth to try if you love him very much. Show them that you are a good girl with a good attitude, that you are the girl who suit for their boy.
2006-09-12 17:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make a move! try to please his parents...be yourself and let them feel that you really love their son....express it in a nice manner be polite and be patient...do what you can do be optimist...fight for your love....then suddenly pray....if you do all of that and it didn't work you should accept the fact that you are not meant for each other...find the right one...:)
2006-09-12 17:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by vjean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL you what works. PRAY 4 them. LET g0d work on them. You just remain sweet and cute and nice. And ill pray 4 them too OK> best wishes star.
2006-09-12 17:18:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋