Im thinking about joining the marine corps?

Question

theres alot im debating that im doing, death is defintely one thing, do you think theres less of a chance id die now....wars ending...? or its just by complete chance, its in gods hands.... anyways, my friend who was 17 died last year, n he definitely wanted to do the marine corps more than anything, he had his whole life ahead of him, i wanna do it for him, and myself, im a college drop out, im 20 years old, i work full time, idk what to do my life isnt that great, i have 2 loving parents, my cuzin is shipping out for the marines in december (4th), and, idk what to doooooo, life is so confusing

Answer 1

Thank you for considering it. More power to you!

Answer 2

its a tough decision but first and foremost do it for yourself rather than anyone else. yeah, life is tough but if you look at the statistics we have more 15-25 yr olds dying every month from alcohol related car crashes than have the whole time in the iraq war. one thing though you have to know this that if you join the marines you will go to iraq its a given with the marines, also you have to make up your mind that if you join you will stick with it no matter what, its not a game and you cannot quit. if you do decide to join then make sure whatever they promise you is in writing in your contract before you sign it. also you could consider another branch of service, the army is the only branch that guarantees you the mos (or job) that you want if of course you show aptitude for it. don't however join the infantry (the army only) for the signing bonus cause you will just have to get an education after you serve in that first. it a big decision and only you can make it, its also a decision that will change you for life in many, many good ways, they will take you down to nothing then build you into a man and that can be emotionally and physically demanding and painful but then we never grow until we face adversity do we? give it some thought, talk to a recruiter (and don't let them bully you into joining) and talk with your parents, think some more and then decide. if you choose this path see it through and good luck, stay safe and thank you.

Answer 3

yeah someone in your position that joins the military will regret it. My best friend was very confused after highschool and he joined and hates every minute of it. He will be done in a few months. He joined the Army but he said any branch really. I guess, it really does set your mind strait and make you get your shite together but it reallly does make it hard on you. I would say, if you have a burning desire to make a difference, become a patriot for the love of your country, and don't mind the ultimate sacrifice than you should probably do it. Otherwise, maybe college isn't so bad, and you should give it a second chance. You are stil very young and in the scheme of things have your whole life ahead of you.

Don't give in to the appeal that you have a duty or that you are to serve your country because you owe it to them. Rather look at it in a simple what are they offering me, how can I take advantage of it, and what do I have to do to get it. I would say look into your communtiy college and get some transfer ed done so you could go to a university. Alot of business simply look at if you have a BA degree they don't care what its in. Have fun with it. Also if you have a girlfriend or a lover, the military is VERY hard on relationships, especially them and your family IE your parents. They are always concerned for your safety, wellbeing, and ofcourse YOUR LIFE!

It is up to you and if you do choose the Marines SEMPER FI MUDDER FUDDER! They are the ministers of death prayer for war!

Answer 4

Don't do it unless you believe in what you'll be dying for. Because as of now the military is sending young kids over seas without very much training, and this is dangerous. Also, understand that you'll be immediatley sent to combat, not to school. You only get the "payoff" of the education if you manage to survive out there. Also, remember that you wont see your family or friends for a very very very long time.
Bottom line: Don't do it for anyone else. Don't do it for your friend that died because he wouldn't want you to risk your life too. There's just as much chance that you can die now as 2 years ago, because it's such a quagmire that US troops can't withdraw now.
If you still want to after everything that I said....then god bless and good luck!

Answer 5

While I think it's commendable that you want to serve, one thing I DON'T like is their mistreatment of the falsely accused group of Marines (and one sailor) being held at Camp Pendleton, based solely upon the hearsay of the enemy, and for doing their job and doing it well.

I think that this is a disgrace, and that there's something really weird going on here, in the form of a conspiracy, in my opinion.

Another thing I don't like is that Marines and Army troops are being sacrificed in the name of political correctness, because sufficient air power will not be used when appropriate. They're being sent into battle with rules that should apply to highway patrolmen, and then when they do a good job, look what happens as I've described above.

Answer 6

Know that even though the war is letting up, that there's a possibility that another will start and that they will ask you to serve. Know what you're getting into, know the consequences, when a war starts don't complain. If you have nothing going for you, it may be a good choice. Consider all your options and leave it as a last option.

Answer 7

Look as long asyou not running away from something. doit because YOU want to. I have 14 years in the Army. It is truly a different way of life. I been to Iraq... just be careful what ever you decide

Answer 8

I think that if it is something you have your heart set on you should do it. Don't even think about dying this is something which is in Gods hands and we cant do anything to change this.

Answer 9

You sound really confused. Talk to someone you trust & think long & hard before you make any permanent decisions.

Answer 10

Do it homie!! SEMPER FI !! I served from 88-92, got sent to first gulf war.