Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

i have a friend whom i have known since early in high school, we have been very close friends, but lately we dont keep in touch much, he says that he's always busy with doing his school work since he is in college and always studying and sh*t. we used to hang out a lot, but then every time i call him (like once a day), he never return calls, picks up, respond to text message or voice message. so i stopped calling, i just ignore him, go on with my life, hang out with my other friends. then when he's bored or has free time to hang out, he only calls like once every 2 months. i dont even consider him as a friend anymore, but i want to know what the f*ck is his problem. is this normal to most people or should i be suspicious about this?

2006-09-10 16:37:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-10 16:37:14 · 38 answers · asked by i sharpen 6 in Friends

Ok...i met this guy. he comes into my work during lunch. Well we started talking and he came over one night to hang out with me and my friend and we ended up hooking up. I know he is married but i just got out of a 4 year relationship and i wasnt thinking about him being married. I dont want a relationship with him or anything. But i just want to know will it be strange in coming in my work..It was just a one time thing

2006-09-10 16:36:51 · 22 answers · asked by WhatNow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.

She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.
What is it that's going on......exactly? Is there more to it than can be assumed already? I had already asked her out once for coffee to see her reaction and she said when she could, she'd make time for me

2006-09-10 16:36:35 · 9 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a drug problem and I told him if he messed up and left us broke again I was going to leave, but his daddy is in the hospital dying hooked up to a respirator and thats the only thing keeping him alive and my husband is messing up again. This time he gave me all of his money before i left so he wouldnt mess up but I know he is probably just selling his fishing poles and whatever tools he has. Would I be an awful person if I left him knowing he is suffering from his dad being so sick and may not live? What should I do?

2006-09-10 16:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by stormyblythe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in my 40s he's in his 30s with 13.5 years lead on his age./..any stats on how frequnetly these pairings lead to long term rshp/marriage/success??? help appreciated!!!

2006-09-10 16:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by violet femme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you've been in a long-term marriage or relationship, what do you think has contributed to the success and happiness of your marriage/relationship? I'm asking because I'm curious as to what makes a marriage work. My parents (mom and stepdad) are married, but their marriage is a joke. They're not at all affectionate with each other and act more like roommates. I just have a fear that I won't have a really successful relationship or marriage because I've never had a good example of one. I have a bf that I live with, but our relationship isn't that great since I'm too stubborn and don't communicate well (I don't like to get emotional... although I'm female). If you've been in a long-term marriage or relationship, I'd like to know how you made it work.

2006-09-10 16:35:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my life is aweful here, might be better on my own, im only 14

2006-09-10 16:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family

2006-09-10 16:35:10 · 14 answers · asked by Sammy 4 in Weddings

i am a student and i have already studied for 2.5 years in my school. i have made 3 good friends and 1 of them is in my class and now i have blew 2 of my friends off and i am outcasted in school cause i dont have any frens left. should i continue schooling or just stop schooling and start working.

2006-09-10 16:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by twkalone 2 in Friends

2006-09-10 16:33:47 · 14 answers · asked by allykitty63 2 in Family

My husband has ADD, possibly Bi-Polar too. Our marriage is crumbling because of his disorders. He is like two different people. We are having trouble getting help because he is active duty military. I love him and don't want to give up on him, but I'm tired of him pushing me away.

2006-09-10 16:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs. Waiting 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he ccan make me smile no matter what and i love him with all my heart but sometimes i wonder if we will be together and get married like we talk about doin because sometimes we arguee ALOT. How do I know if i really truely love him and if i want to stay with him ??

2006-09-10 16:33:10 · 12 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Weddings

I really wonder why he does all these things to me: pick me up at the airport everytime i come back from my trips, attend my family parties, be friends with my brothers and sisters, he likes my family, he is close to everybody, he cook dinner for me, he helped me move, he helped my family move, he would paint my mom's house....all of these things! i really like him, but im scared that if i tell him, he will reject me. i dont know what to do, i wish he feels the same way for me.

2006-09-10 16:32:48 · 4 answers · asked by hapi2bm3 2 in Friends

Hi,

My partner and I are 19 and 17 respectively. When she was with her previoud BF she has sex 5 times and each time it hurt her alot and she never enjoyed it.

6 months we had been together and tried 3 times and sex hurt tremendously. We were going to see a doctor but she wanted to try a few more times which we did and we were able to have sex after more practice it started hurting less.

Unfortunately she cannot come to orgasm it no longer really hurts her but she cannot reach orgasm. We have achieved it 3 times but none since during sex. I am able to get her off other ways but not during sex.

Can anyone help us we don't think that it is my size or how long I partake in intercourse she enjoys it but it does not get her to orgasm..

Thankyou

2006-09-10 16:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wants to know what was happening

2006-09-10 16:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 16:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by Nat 3 in Singles & Dating

he sayz befOre dat he loves me. . but suddenly! i didnt hear anything frOm him. . am riLy gOin crazy!

2006-09-10 16:31:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was walking down the street when this smelly dirty old man asked for money so i said no get a job so i got in my lexus and as i was driving away he walked up to the car so i threw some champagne in his face-my wife said i shouldnt have done that i shouldve thrown water because he couldve used a squegee and sold it to one of his hobo friends for drugs?

2006-09-10 16:30:28 · 33 answers · asked by Uallsuck 2 in Family

well i broke up with a gurl and i didnt relize how much i loved her until i did it and i just need a good poem to send to her to tewll her how lost i am without her so please help me out!!!

2006-09-10 16:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by twiztidjuggalo123456789 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried Ebay, but didn't come near what I want for it....It was $900 before adding the bustle and it's a gorgeous dress, but all I want for it is $400...is that too much to ask for an unused dress? I don't know why it wont sell! Any ideas how to sell it? We don't have any good consignment shops in my area, either. I'm bummed.

2006-09-10 16:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by Oops 2 in Weddings

I am 22, married, and starting a great career, but I feel lost. I feel like this isnt the life I am suppossed to be living. It is almost like I fell into some mold. I am proud of my acheivements and the things that I have accomplished. But this isnt me, I have become what others want to see.

I am still trying to figure out how I got to this point. Like I was myself one day and this person the next. But now I think I am in denial trying to convince myself that "this is it" this is what life is made of. I feel I am in so deep it's too late to turn it around.

I have set such a good example for my family, that if I try to be my true self I will truly dissapoint them.

I want to know are there any others that feel lost like me? And if so how do you cope with it?

2006-09-10 16:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by lalala 4 in Family

Do you remember where? who? what made it so great?

2006-09-10 16:27:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do share with me when ure seriously involved with one.. someone may say that this is stupid but only people in this scenario will understand the pain and love..

2006-09-10 16:27:44 · 5 answers · asked by Tina J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 16:27:13 · 29 answers · asked by 2BaD4u 4 in Marriage & Divorce

it happened a year ago but i still have a hard time trusting him

2006-09-10 16:26:55 · 30 answers · asked by sixteen20012002 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so what does it mean when a person who you don't particularly like asks to sit on your lap. This girl who I don't exactly like and who is probably straight, told me to take a book off my lap so that she could sit on me.

2006-09-10 16:26:52 · 15 answers · asked by LalaLola 2 in Friends

2006-09-10 16:26:48 · 1 answers · asked by verylucky1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 16:24:53 · 36 answers · asked by yowww kelly clarkson 4 in Family

..mine was last year when i went to the guys apt and he answered the door completly naked! i sware! and i looked stunned and he said as seriously as can be,"hey there, i just got out of the shower." this guy was so gross! this isn't the kind of stuff i want to see on a first date!!

2006-09-10 16:24:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating