Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

The bible states that God hates divorce and I want to do the right thing.What do I do?

2006-09-10 16:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i sense that we both wanted to be more than just friends in this relationship? i'm not talking about sex if that's what you're thinking of.

2006-09-10 16:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy in my neighborhood who likes me, ans everytime I see him , i smile! i dont make myself smile i just automatically do! does that mean anything?

2006-09-10 16:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4 in Singles & Dating

He sometimes told me that she likes the quality of his cousin as GF! They just see each other in a family gatherings!Everytime his cousin get a new BF he always criticized, and later another new BF introduce to him and he also critisized the men, and he said his cousin was drunk and kissing his BF while he was watching and he felt eww!at that night,he slept with his cousin in a room, he told me he slap (just a dump)his cousin while saying her "why is it that your taste is so bad now for another boy?"But he said nothing happened between him and the cousin!Why is he affected by his cousin's relationship?

2006-09-10 16:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by gabriel s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked the question about a flower girl wearing the same type/color dress as the bride. It's about my friend's little girl who's in a wedding. I thought I'd ask all of you & give her some of your feed-back. The wedding isn't for me, I've been there & done that & got divorced a few years ago...but it's ok!! Thanx to the one who told me that it was my day, but it's not. Sorry, I failed to explain all of this before. I'm not in a relationship right now.

2006-09-10 16:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Dar 1 in Weddings

It is very hard to live here with my parents. They seem to be sick of me being here. I have a job, and am trying to get my life back together, but it is so hard. They get mad when I stay at my boyfriends on the weekends, but I sometimes just don't want to come home and deal with the stuff here. I don't know what my question is exactly..any advice besides move out...cuz I know that ...that's what I'd like to do.

2006-09-10 16:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

first let me clarify. my sons dog of 13 years just got ran over friday. i posted about it in the pet section if you want to read more?? anyway now my wife is blaming me for the loss and is talking about leaving. now i am not perfect, but i dont drink, do drugs or hit my wife. she gets to stay home because i make good money. so why is she blameing me and saying i am a bad person and saying all of thesse ugly things ?? my heart is already dying because of my sons greif. wahy is she doing this and is it my fault. i didnt kill him. someone else hit him witha car and i tried to save him. help because i am devastated!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-10 16:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 16:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by nobodysfool 4 in Friends

2006-09-10 16:19:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've never smelled them before, but I sometimes wonder if women truly do "give them off," like some female animals do when they're in estrus, or "heat"--that is, they're ready to accept a male for mating.
Do women have ways of sending "the message," other than flirting?

2006-09-10 16:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i have 4 step-children there ages are 12,9,8,5 and i have one of my own to there dad she is 1 1/2. And all i get every day is b***s**t from the 2 older ones i have found a letter (and no not by looking) that said that if there dad does not shape up he is going to loose his kids and i have to leave them alone and keep my nose out of their stuff and stop telling them what to do i have had these kide for 3 years now and nothing has changed they keep telling there mum that i am every thing under the sun and then after their mum hasent rang them for a month or two they start telling me how much they hate there mum and no i dont join in on it. so please help me what do i do i dont want to leave there father and i dont want my daughter to have to loose her dad. Please help!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-10 16:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by cowgirl85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I get married I really want a black dress. My friends think I'm crazy and the guy I plan on marrying (at some point lol) is not okay with it. I personally don't know what the big deal is. It's just a dress, right?

2006-09-10 16:17:35 · 19 answers · asked by Livia 2 in Weddings

How do I get my husband over what someone previously suggested might be a "Madonna Complex" after we had a baby 9-months ago?

2006-09-10 16:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are signs that a guy likes you and is interested and not just friendly?!

2006-09-10 16:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What did you do (go out to eat, watch a movie, play games)??? How did it go? Do you plan on going out with this person again?

2006-09-10 16:16:38 · 11 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5 in Singles & Dating

The quote before my question came from an advice column on etiquette that I read years ago. I understand it to be poor etiquette to have "no gifts" appear anywhere on the invitation as it is presumptuous. We really just want folks to come and have a nice time... it's my second wedding, and many gave gifts at my first wedding.

2006-09-10 16:16:38 · 12 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Weddings

Here's the deal. I met this guy and we were friends for a few weeks, hanging out talking and going out to the bar to play pool on the weekends. Then we started sleeping together, for the last month now. The last few days have felt weird. I call him once maybe twice a week and he's always busy. He really is a great guy. Single dad with two kids. Two jobs. So he really is busy. I don't know if he's trying to push away from me or if it's in my head and I'm the one pushing. I've been hurt but so has he. I also don't want him to think that he has obligations to me for anything. At the same time I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

2006-09-10 16:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by bird_e80 4 in Singles & Dating

How do i start the conversation??
What should I talk about???
How long should I wait after I get her number to call her???
What shold I say to keep the flow going???

Thank You!

2006-09-10 16:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by egeqb18 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont get along with anyone in my family, most of my time is either spent in my room or at a friends house, and when im not, it always leads to a fight. help?

2006-09-10 16:14:36 · 23 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family

It just seems like in today's world I can't seem to find people who doesn't have any kids or smoke..I would like to get to know new people and its hard because I am picky on who I talk too..Male or female..Is there anyone out there who feels the same

2006-09-10 16:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by lrkarey 1 in Friends

I have seen a lot about the ins and outs of giving b-jobs but not much direction for the guys pleasing girls orally. please if you have advice... answer

2006-09-10 16:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by DeeDee 2 in Singles & Dating

I have about 130 or so people coming for my wedding in July to a National Park, what I want to know is do I pay the park fees or should the guests pay? It is about $6.00/person or I could probably get a group rate?

2006-09-10 16:13:11 · 21 answers · asked by curiosity 2 in Weddings

my bf has asian fetish and it really bothers me, he always ogles at them even when we're together and sometimes i just want to slap him. he constantly talks about them and he even asked me to act and look like an asian girl. i don't know if this is just a phase or what.

2006-09-10 16:13:01 · 16 answers · asked by curiousj143 1 in Singles & Dating

For the ladies: Can you translate this for me?

Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.

She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.
What is it that's going on......exactly? Is there more to it than can be assumed already? I had already asked her out once for coffee to see her reaction and she said when she could, she'd make time for me.

2006-09-10 16:12:59 · 7 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 16:12:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we talked about the kids we have, besides he asked how i was doing,THAT"S ALL. I went outside and talk over 45 minutes,my actual boyfriend obviously was upset but said nothing in front of his family.In private he told me it was very disrecpetful of me,since we were at his family's house.I felt so guilty and stupid for what i have done,i didn't mean it.My boyfriend said he felt humillated , since his family witness what happened, but don't know i was talking to my ex.I told him i was sorry, and that i love him.What should i have done ? What would u have done in his position ?
HELP PLEASE !

2006-09-10 16:12:33 · 3 answers · asked by clavel c 1 in Singles & Dating

is there any tips u guys got to help
sometimes theres an awkward silence

2006-09-10 16:11:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, sometimes when I am out with my friends my girlfriend will interfere and interrupt our conversations. Not only this, but she can bring up some really stupid topics that I don't care to talk about. I have been thinking about what to do and a friend suggested maintenance spankings in where you spank your girlfriend before you go out to establish the fact that the man is in charge and when she goes out her butt will be sore and she will be reminded to know her place and not act out of line. To me its kind of like punishing your girlfriend before she does something so I'm kind of iffy on the whole thing. Is this a good idea?

2006-09-10 16:11:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-10 16:10:59 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know she is lying cause I can feel it within, but I have no facts or proof. help help

2006-09-10 16:10:47 · 15 answers · asked by ashes_vancouver 1 in Singles & Dating