It is very hard to live here with my parents. They seem to be sick of me being here. I have a job, and am trying to get my life back together, but it is so hard. They get mad when I stay at my boyfriends on the weekends, but I sometimes just don't want to come home and deal with the stuff here. I don't know what my question is exactly..any advice besides move out...cuz I know that ...that's what I'd like to do.
2006-09-10 16:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am going to be 27 here on The 13th . I had to move back in with mine at 26 for Ex reason and it was not fun one bit I moved out I was so happy when I did I can't live with them at all.. All I can say is your going to have to deal with it if you are going to stay there I know it is hard to live with them A lot of Parents don't want to face that there kid is grow. Don't matter how old you get
2006-09-10 16:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by nightsky1331 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a touchy issue on both sides. Your parents are trying to help you see the light . they obviously love you and care or they never would of let you move back in. But, maybe they do not approve of you current relationship and maybe they do not understand why you are staying there and living at home, maybe they feel that you should just focus on getting out. You are 28 and that means you are an adult, that means that instead of hiding out from them on the weekends you should talk to them instead
2006-09-10 23:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. I stayed with my parents for three months in the spring and I almost went nuts. Ever thought about moving it with the bf? I know you said not to tell you to move out, but I'm afraid that will be the only thing to really fix it. You are an adult now and want to live your life your way. (As you should) and they no matter how hard they try will probably always see you as a little girl, and be uncomfortable with your independence.
2006-09-10 23:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 and living at home again too, i know how you feel. Just leave a note on the fridge whenever you arent coming home that night or you are gonna come home late. Parents can be annoying and still like to treat adult children as kids. Just stay out as much as possible. Stay you are staying over a female's house if you get to much crap about being at your BFs.
2006-09-11 00:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing we need to know is why you are back at your parents house? If you are there because you made some bad decisions that left you on the short end of the stick, then your parents are probably concerned that you could get hurt again.You should also understand that your parents are people as well as your parents my best advice would be to try communication.We as parents like to be shown that we are doing things right also.
2006-09-10 23:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We, my husband, son and I, moved in with my parents when we built our new home, and it was HORRIBLE! The only advice I have is to have respect for them. And hopefully they will respect you too. You are in their home (again) and it will only be temporary, so just respect them and their rules. If they want you to stay home on the weekends, stay home. If you don't like it, move out. It can really put some strain on your relationship later, believe me. Good luck.
2006-09-10 23:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by the_proms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents let them know that your a grown woman and you respect they wishes and rules of the house and make sure they know that u have a relationship and u would like to spend time as far as ur boyfriend cant u move in with him or something
2006-09-10 23:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeha i hear you on that never fun to move back in with parents. you lose your privacy and your stuff gets moved around and food can be an issue. just tough it out till you can get every thing in place and if you have money to go out you have money to save so remember that.
2006-09-10 23:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not rush to a quick decision!! mom and dad feel like you do! they love you but want space to. they will deal with u for a long time but they will bust to. just put your energy into saving $ and getting your own place!!
2006-09-10 23:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by patrick h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save money and get your own place. Move in with boyfriend.
2006-09-10 23:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋