well what I would like to know is how do you get a man to be good at going 'down' if he is not?

Question

I have seen a lot about the ins and outs of giving b-jobs but not much direction for the guys pleasing girls orally. please if you have advice... answer

Answer 1

When he goes down on you. Talk it through. Tell what you are feeling or what you want to feel. The guy gets turn on by that and you get the pleasure too. Trust me its good.Try to let him make you *** at least twice and make alot of noise.

Answer 2

While he is down ther tell him exactly what you want. When it feels good make sure he knows, and when it doesn't seductively suggest something else. He will never know what you want unless you let him know. Most guys like it when a girl takes over a little bit.

Answer 3

Believe me gurl til I met my husband now I know exactly what you mean cuz majority of men just "go down" but have no clue as to where there goin lol the best way that I've been able to get mine and make sure that it's pleasurable is tell them to do the alphabet or tell them you wanna play a game, for him to spell something with his tongue and for you to guess what he's tryin to spell. this way no matter how bad he is he's bound to hit all spots and let you get yours lol believe me gurl it works lol just incase you dont wanna tell him and hurt his ego, this way he'll think you wanna just play a game lol

Answer 4

There arent many questions about it cuz guys think they know it all lol

Best thing to do, so as not to hurt his ego.... tel him somthing you want to try (dont tell him he is doing it wrong) and even better - show him how you like it ;)

Answer 5

It might sound weird but u just have to tell him what to do at first, cause he dont know what u like until u tell him. In other words just tell him what feels best.

Answer 6

You need to tell him what you like and guide him if not you both are miss out on real pleasure.

Answer 7

If he's not any good then I'd tell them before that I'd like them to try something different. Then tell him what I like. Like slow licks, stuff like that.

Answer 8

Only you can tell him how to please you. Guide his as he is doing it. Tell him. Say faster, lower, higher, harder, to the left or right, deeper, slower, etc. And then when you are hot and ready invite him to get it in.

Answer 9

u know where it feels got sit on the bed and show him.let him touch it with his finger first then let him put his tongue on it.good luck you poor girl.