Here's the deal. I met this guy and we were friends for a few weeks, hanging out talking and going out to the bar to play pool on the weekends. Then we started sleeping together, for the last month now. The last few days have felt weird. I call him once maybe twice a week and he's always busy. He really is a great guy. Single dad with two kids. Two jobs. So he really is busy. I don't know if he's trying to push away from me or if it's in my head and I'm the one pushing. I've been hurt but so has he. I also don't want him to think that he has obligations to me for anything. At the same time I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
2006-09-10 16:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by bird_e80 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly.. it doesn't sound good. If this guy likes you regardless of how busy he is, then he will find time to talk, and or see you. If he is" that into you," there are no good excuses not to want to see the person you are into. I know it isn't something you want to hear. I wouldn't call him anymore. See if he calls and wants to see you. If a guy likes you, he will want to make sure that you are not going out with anyone else, or letting you have the possibilities of going out with someone else very often. He will want to make it be known how he thinks and feels. If he doesn't call.. I wouldn't prolong the agony. Move on.
2006-09-10 16:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by junebug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 06:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just busy with the kids and stuff and there's nothing to worry about.
2006-09-10 16:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was a single dad with two jobs before you had this problem, so why is he not taking your calls....he is moving on...
2006-09-10 16:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by civicsea25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wanted you for sex and he really is gun shy about women or he just used you...give him some space...wait a few days and see what happens..hope for the best but be prepared for the worst!!!
2006-09-10 16:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit to yourself that you have been used again, then just get on with your life. Go into a relationship with an open mind...not legs.
2006-09-10 16:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by No shame, No game 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just play it cool next time you call him and he say he busy don't call him back if he don't call you
2006-09-10 16:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sleep with someone you only know for a few weeks. sure he's busy...until he wants to get laid.
2006-09-10 16:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋