i dont get along with anyone in my family, most of my time is either spent in my room or at a friends house, and when im not, it always leads to a fight. help?
2006-09-10 16:14:36 · 23 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i cant move im only 14
2006-09-10 16:17:00 · update #1
its not only my parents but my brothers too
2006-09-10 16:19:25 · update #2
You are probably 15 years old give or take a year or two. No one your age gets along with their parents. Teenagers are too obnoxious to get along with most people.
That will change when you are about 22
2006-09-10 16:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age.
There is an akward stage in growing up that you just can't get along with your family. Parents want to hold on to their babies, but the babies are growing into young adults who are developing their own styles of living. At the same time these young adults still need their parents for advice, believe it or not they were once your age and surprisingly have gone through the same things. So their advice is not nagging it's experience. Their trying to stop you from making the same mistakes they did growing up. They forget that sometimes people need to learn through experience, as they did once upon a time.
If your an adult they probably just want you to move out and leave them alone.
2006-09-10 23:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not stated why you do not get along with them so it is hard to answer that. Are they abusive? critical? Let me guess, you are a teenager right? If that is the case then try to get along with them. This is a hard time of your life when you feel you have all the answers but just give the parents a few years and they will get smarter by the time you are 18. Remember to be patient with them as they are just humans too. Get them together and have a talk. Let them know what bugs you cause I doubt they have ESP. Good luck!
2006-09-10 23:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try asking yourself why it is that you don't get along with your family? What is it that they could do differently to help the situation? What is it that you can do differently as well? Relationships are a two way street. Trying sitting them down and think up compromises you all can make. (Ex. I'll do [a] if you do [b]) Also think about maybe going to family counseling if you don't think you guys can come up with a solution on your own.
But know that you are not alone. I'm sure this is something you all can get through. Good luck and take care!
2006-09-10 23:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends a lot on your age. Sometimes we go though stages in life..and we need privacy as well as understanding. I think you might be going through a stage of finding your real self.. and everyone seems and feels like strangers to you....because you don't really know who YOU..really are right now. Your family should understand and give you space.. talk to your closes family members...(that live with you)..and explain that it is not them..but that they CAN..help..by not pressuring you to do things you don't want. Be patient with yourself!!
2006-09-10 23:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure a lot of people have conflict with family members; that is part of family relationships, we would hope that as time goes by, there will be a better and better understanding between each other-we have to be willing to tolerate each other and exercise empathy. It is give-and-take.
2006-09-10 23:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had same problem when i was a kid..my mom actually would make my punishment"stay in living room with family"instead of go to your room..lol.But i grew up and its laughable now,guess I'm saying hang in there.
2006-09-10 23:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong in that house...it seems to me thats its space..everyone is in the way, right? do not pay attention to that stuff...respect family go along with whatever parents say...stop disagreeing help around the house...my sis bro and i also were very combative until we all grew older and got jobs and then no one in house to argue with. good luck email me
2006-09-10 23:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have that problem, and I'm 28 years old. I moved back in with my family.
When I was your age I had the SAME problem too...don't worry you are NOT alone, and it will get better, I promise!
2006-09-10 23:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hv u never wonder wat the reason? They r yr family members.... perhaps u would like to do some soul searching..... n get the "reasons" out....so that u all can sit down n hv a nice talk. I m sure tat u can solve this problem...after all blood is always thicker than water.
2006-09-10 23:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋