My husband has consistantly had problems speaking up on my behalf. For example, a few years back when we were in college, our boss made "a pass" at me. More specifically placed his hands on my hips and proceeded to rub himself against my "back-side" thinking it was "cute." After telling my husband, he just kind of shruged it off saying "that was just how he is." After seeing how upset I was and telling him I deserved an apology, he went to the manager to let her handle the situation rather than handle it himself. I wasn't wanting him to "punch his lights out," just wanted him to tell his boss how inappropriate that was and out of respect for both of us to apologize. I asked him why he didn't handle it himself and his reply was that "he didn't want to lose his job." This was a part-time $9 hr position. It hurt me really bad then, and it still does. He didn't even plan anything for my college graduation. He's always willing to do anything for me but what matters most. HELP
2006-09-09
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