Family & Relationships - 9 September 2006

My girlfriend's boyfriend of 11 months, is a karaoke singer, he is an amazing singer. my girfriend doesn't sing. Well, when he takes her to karoake and when he sings on stage, the girls always want to sing duets with him and grab him to dance with them. When she sees this happening it upsets her. She doesn't like it when he talks to girls, she is afraid that the girls will take him away from her. She joined a gym a while ago to get herself to be in tip-top shape for him, she wants to look good for him, not that she wasn't in shape, she was, and goes to the gym regularly. When she met her boyfriend, this is what he likes to do is sing!

2006-09-09 16:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by Kit 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance went off on one when I told her I was having a night out with my best pal who was moving away two days later.I finished our relationship.Was I wrong???????????

2006-09-09 16:48:31 · 13 answers · asked by niolbonthrone 2 in Singles & Dating

ARE ANYONE OF YOU OUT THERE. i HAVE NOT SEE YOU ALL IN TWENTY YEARS. PLEASE RESPOND.

2006-09-09 16:46:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've asked questions about this guy before, so bare with me please. I've seen my casual lover/bf/best friend for more 1.5yrs, about every wk/wknd. Went through alot 2gether, but never really became 2 serious. We both weren't really ready for a serious relationship but always gave each other mixed signals of something that could be more. He asked twice where I bought my jewelry from, & said awhile back that it'd be fun 2 get a log cabin 2gether, where he is from. He understood the fact that my parents were a lil better off than his, like he'd always compare them, maybe to see if I'd look down upon them, which I would NEVER do, if I liked him, I'd like his parents. I'm a city girl, he's from a small town, so I guess I seemed more uppity to him, but tried 2 show him that I liked him 4 who he was, not money. I always dressed nice cuz I like fashion(used 2 model) But I used 2 like the simple life, outdoor life like he does now. And now I regret that I didn't show him I can be like that.

2006-09-09 16:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 16:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i posted a question a earlier and it regarded me as "fat" i weigh 175 and i am 5'3. i say that i am fat because that is the first negative thing people say when they are upset (i.e. if i choose not to talk to a boy his first reaction maybe "u fat anyway!!") but on my question alot of people seemed upset/disturbed that i consider myself fat... I AM BEAUTIFUL....lets get that clear.....but what do u consider fat????? and what don't guys like to date the girls that are in the middle (not skinny but not really fat fat)?????

2006-09-09 16:45:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies If someone where to ask you on a serious note what makes a great man what would you say?The reason why i am asking this is because I want to be the best guy i can be with my girl friend. What do you think?

2006-09-09 16:45:01 · 19 answers · asked by nick b 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning on moving out 2500 miles away. I am under 25, have no family or anything here holding me back, except extended family. My little cousin is 9, and I am a big part of her life. Should I move or not? She found out from her mom and dad, not me, I havn't been able to talk to her to tell her, and today I got a yahoo message from her begging me not to move. she is the only one who has made me feel guilty about the move. how can i explain it to her and help her understand why I am doing it, and also to not feel so bad? is it normal to feel this way?

2006-09-09 16:44:48 · 11 answers · asked by penguin_king_99 2 in Family

i love a guy who loves me too. our love life is very good and we r in love for 3 yr's. but the problem is i am becoming too possesive of him. and always thinking of him. how to stop doing this.

2006-09-09 16:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all ive seen him do was hog tie crockadials and whirl them around and harass wild animals and stingrays and now everyone is surprised that hes dead whats wrong with people my god please tell me why he was so great its about time an animal stuck up for itself

2006-09-09 16:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21, very handsome, live in NYC, have only been to 3 clubs/bars before I was 21, they were like teen-held events (including Webster Hall). I had bad experiences at each because I had no real friends who wanted to accompany me (unlike most guys who go), all the girls there were with some guys or too busy talking to their girlfriends. But now I'm 21 and figure things could be different due to my wider range of places to go, but I'm still scared because what if I encounter the same problems as last time?

I mean are there really women who go to these places to have sex? We hear people guys talk about it so much, yet I hear so many women despise of it. I lack the skills to initiate and close the deal, but can carry a convo. Will the guys there be a problem? Too many guys at a bar/club could steal one's thunder or intimidate even, like it did to me.

2006-09-09 16:41:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 16:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 in Singles & Dating

well, iv been going out with my girlfriend for one year TODAY!! * sept 9th..and we didnt even get to hang out because i got angry in the morning for something she said and we both ended up hanging out with our friends and i feel really bad and i dont think she really cares at all that we didnt spend the day together she called me and was like i had a great day and she seemed happy and all but im misrible..shoudl i break up with her?..im 15 by the way..

2006-09-09 16:40:36 · 20 answers · asked by jon s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend broke up with me and i havent talked to her in 1 week and a half.We broke up like three months ago but were seeing each other until like 3 weeks ago. we were together for three years should i call or let her go and wait for her to call me?

2006-09-09 16:40:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy flirt with me initially and his best friend told him he is interested in me, he kind of ignore me now. He ask me what i think of his best friend (our common friend) and what kind of boyfriend i want..

2006-09-09 16:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a man for 12 weeks. We had a story book romance in the beginning, all complete down to the "wicked witch" (his ex wife). They have a child together and she was very jealous of me at first. She even threatened to not let him see his daughter. About 7 weeks ago he started driving a truck. He moved out of the house he was renting and is now looking for another apartment. I just came in from a road trip with him. His ex called and wanted to know when he was gonna see the child and during the course of conversation he told her that he would not be in until around 10:30 tonight, Saturday, and is leaving back out tomorrow evening. He told her he needed to do laundry and didn't know if he could see his daughter this w/end. The ex offered to do his laundry and for him to spend the night there. He swears that there is nothing going on, but I am VERY confused. Is it possible that they r just friends?

2006-09-09 16:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by daisy_baby002000 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy from online. We hit it off. I spent a couple days with him. He says he really likes me. He wants me to do all the calling. He says he wants to see me again, but is busy for the next week. Doesnt know when we can get together but wants too.

2006-09-09 16:38:04 · 22 answers · asked by C S 1 in Singles & Dating

What was the reason you left him/her ? What did they do, to break your heart?

2006-09-09 16:37:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...thought you had to be 18 to be on here, whats the deal with all the kids asking sexual questions and then we or s.o. gets reported for saying ****...my daughter tried to get on here and said no you had to 18 ?

2006-09-09 16:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So theres this boy @ skool that i have a huge crush on but i'm confused how he feels. a few yrs we were good friends but then a grl told him i liked him & after she did that he stopped talking 2 me for the rest of that year and the nxt but this summer he started emailing me everyday & instant messaging me. i can catch him looking at me like @ lunch and stuff but when he knows that i can see him he turns quick! he talks to my bff al the time and tells her compliments about me but he never tells me anything. when we go to asemblies and stuff his friends and i r all friends so we sit nxt to eachother but he always sits furthest away.every once in a while though he sits really close with only one person in between us. but when i talk to my friends he comes up to and walks so close to me that i would trip him if i took a step forward. he hardly every says hi but when he does his face goes super red!Sometimes when he is talking to his friends he points at me and they all look and when i look at them they all put their fingers down and turn around.. he smiles at me all the ime and talks to me 24/7 on the comp. but he turns really red when i say hi at skool. i am so confused!!what do u think?

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the prob. is that i get just as nervous as he does..i mostly just get tongue tied but every once in a while i turn red!

2006-09-09 16:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell me why you prefer either one on a guy? Hurry I'm going to the mall to buy them. HAHA

2006-09-09 16:35:19 · 27 answers · asked by skoosh_me 3 in Singles & Dating

IVE KNOWN THESE GUY 4 ABOUT A YEAR. WE WERE 2GETHER 4 A WHILE BUT I DECIDED I WASNT COMPLETELY READY 2 B WITH HIM SO IT ENDED AFTER WE SPENT TIME APART WE TALKED ABOUT IT, DECIDED TO REMAIN FRIENDS. HE NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. I ADMITTED I WANTED HIM BACK (4SINCERE REASONS NOT CUZ OF THE GF), HE WANTS TO STAY WITH HIS GF.ABOUT A MONTH AGO WE HAD A FIGHT, HE SAID HE WANTED ME 2 LEAVE HIM ALONE SO I DID. BOUT A WEEK AGO HE CONTACTS ME, I SAID I WAS MAD AT HIM SO HE APOLOGIZED. WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIM? IT WAS HIS IDEA TO LEAVE ME ALONE. THIS WASN'T THE 1ST FIGHT WE'VE HAD BUT IT IWAS THE 1ST TIME HE'S TOLD ME 2 LEAVE HIM ALONE. THEN HE JUST CONTACTS ME OUT OF NOWHERE?!

2006-09-09 16:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should you do if your husband want a child?it is okey with you if he was other girl?

2006-09-09 16:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so we have been daiting for aprox. 2 months and i am totally clueless on what to get him/ do for him for his birthday!! i dont want to go ALL OUT but i want it to be nice and something that he will enjoy. his birthday is comming soon so pleaseeee hekp me!!! :]] thank you!!!

2006-09-09 16:33:35 · 10 answers · asked by penetration 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend wrote me a letter and i thought he was mad at me for not givin him an money order but he wasn't and he told me he love me and i love him too i told him i'm going to school to be a doctor and he said he got my back 100% but people keep saying that i should break up with him but i don't want to b cuz he is the sweetest thing you would ever know and he treat me goood and he never got out of line with me so should i keep him?

2006-09-09 16:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by Thomas wife 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend tells me stuff about her family and stuff. I guess i kinda try 2 get her 2 see the good side of things. U think this is right or u think i should just stick up for her and agree and if u dont' think either of these r good ideas what do u think i should say?

2006-09-09 16:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by A0I5 2 in Friends

My hubbies e-mail account was open, I enjoyed reading some mail from mutual friends of ours, I stumbled upon his ex-girlfriends e-mail, he wrote to her about kids, we're thinking of moving back to Ohio from Florida,etc. The last line written was "I had a dream of us in Hawaii", My stomache sank! I felt sick! I thought "wow, just when you think you kmow someone!!" I was not searching or digging for anything, we love and trust one another deeply,so much that I know he would'nt mind my reading because he has nothing to hide. She never did correspond, she must have felt uncomfortable.My question is was that an open invitation or what?? Such thoughts can lead to action. I want some serious answers, I am a Christian woman with a conscience, my hubby said "it was no big deal."Please do not give silly answers, I'm fully aware of the obnoxious world we live in. My hubby helped me write this , we are both curious for the right answer to this scrupulous question. Thank you for your help.

2006-09-09 16:32:37 · 25 answers · asked by smily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-09 16:32:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is not about me. It's a question inspired by others' questions on this site. Same as the last question.

2006-09-09 16:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by *babydoll* 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 16:32:09 · 16 answers · asked by via 1 in Singles & Dating