what should you do if your husband want a child?it is okey with you if he was other girl?
2006-09-09 16:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was me, I would look into adoption. There are so many children out there in need of a good home.
I would not let him have sex with another woman. Cheating is the same no matter the reasons behind it. Besides the risks involved, like STD's and AIDS, you also have to think about how you will feel in the future. It will always be in your mind that he slept with another woman, and you will start to wonder unhealthy things. Like:
"How was she?"
"Was she better that me?"
"Is she prettier than me?"
"Was her body better than mine?"
It can et away at your sanity and trust until your marriage is in trouble.
If you two can't adopt, or don't want to, then look into surrogate mothers. His sperm will be taken and implanted into her without any sexual relations between the two. It's expensive, but you would get a baby that is half him.
You may also be able to have some of your eggs drawn. Then the doctors can fertilize your eggs with his sperm and implant them into another woman. The baby would still be both of yours, you just wouldn't carry it.
Talk to your doctor about your options. See if he can recommend a good fertility clinic that can put you in touch with the right people. Besides adoption agencies, they can also help you to find a surrogate.
2006-09-09 16:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no can do. And like the vows say for better or worse. forsaking all others. There is always adoption if a child is that important. If this is not acceptable I'd say goodbye there are alot of men that would not care about having children. I know this because I don't want children. Just a loving woman
2006-09-09 16:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not okay for your husband makes a child with another girl. In marriage, it is for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. Also there are other ways to have a child. Adoption is one. I had a cyst on my ovary removed and had 2 full terms children after. Maybe you better get a second opinion.
2006-09-09 16:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Miss G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 ovaries, sweetie and if you had surgery on one and had it removed then there is stuill another one. No, it is not all right for your husband to get another girl pregnant. By the way, your English is awful so maybe you misunderstood what the doctor said about getting pregnant. You need to understand what is going on with your health.
2006-09-09 16:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean ovarian cysts? Do you have PCOS?
I have it and had a baby. You can help by eating low carb foods to regulate your insulin and metformin can help with the hormones that cause cysts.
In other words you can still get pregnant- just not as easy as some.
2006-09-09 16:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First why do you thing only having 1 overy will stop you from having kids? I did it on only 1, don't give up hope hon really it can be done I can honestly atest to that. Unless your comfortable with your husband fathering a child I would wait until your possitive you can't do it yourself, it does take a bit longer but have paitence. Don't give up!
2006-09-09 16:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is ovarian zest?
Do you mean a cyst?
Uh, I got pregnant with about thirty little cysts.... People with fibroids or other types of ovarian cysts often go on to have children, even if one of their ovaries has to be removed.
2006-09-09 16:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by im_shady77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I wouldn't let my man be with another girl.
If I couldn't have children, I'd either adopt or find another woman to carry the child. Talk to your doctor and he/she will provide you with more information on having another child. Good luck. =)
2006-09-09 16:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by xcutiejessx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋