I met a guy from online. We hit it off. I spent a couple days with him. He says he really likes me. He wants me to do all the calling. He says he wants to see me again, but is busy for the next week. Doesnt know when we can get together but wants too.
2006-09-09 16:38:04 · 22 answers · asked by C S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's stringing you along....and keeping all his options open. The reason he wants you to do all the calling is because he doesn't want to encourage you...If he wanted to call you, he'd call.
I wouldn't pine away for him. Keep on looking for someone who
really likes you and enjoys your company. Remember: Actions speak louder than words------especially where men are concerned.
2006-09-09 16:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spent a few days with him he may have gotten what he wanted. He's busy next week because he doesn't want to see you but wants to keep you on the sidelines for when he doesn't have anything else going on. Move on!
2006-09-09 23:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might actually want to see you again. I'm dating a guy I met online, but we both are busy with work and I don't get to see him nearly as often as I'd like. I would wait and see how it goes for a week or so.
2006-09-09 23:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you met him online he might have made up some fantasy about you and you didn't live up to it. But he might be the real thing. Just relax and be patient. If you don't hear from him in two weeks consider it over but don't give up hope for yourself that you will meat the right guy someday.
2006-09-09 23:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spent a couple days in person?? Is he of age? If you met in person, and he's of age, and he said those things then he's not that into you. Move on.......
2006-09-09 23:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want you to do all the calling. Is he married by some chance and just hasn't gotten around to telling you? I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for him. Get out and meet other people.
2006-09-09 23:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for those online Cassanovas.
2006-09-09 23:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about the next week and if he says he is busy say if you dont have time for me its over!
2006-09-09 23:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tori_Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing.
I do that to my "piece on the side", so I always have "someone on the other line".
He has a long-term girlfriend or wife.
You're the piece on the side...sorry.
2006-09-09 23:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Solidus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get too paranoid. mayb he's really busy, mayb not. keep one eye open. and be safe, cuz internet dating doesn't normally turn out well. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-09 23:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by iheartme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋