IVE KNOWN THESE GUY 4 ABOUT A YEAR. WE WERE 2GETHER 4 A WHILE BUT I DECIDED I WASNT COMPLETELY READY 2 B WITH HIM SO IT ENDED AFTER WE SPENT TIME APART WE TALKED ABOUT IT, DECIDED TO REMAIN FRIENDS. HE NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. I ADMITTED I WANTED HIM BACK (4SINCERE REASONS NOT CUZ OF THE GF), HE WANTS TO STAY WITH HIS GF.ABOUT A MONTH AGO WE HAD A FIGHT, HE SAID HE WANTED ME 2 LEAVE HIM ALONE SO I DID. BOUT A WEEK AGO HE CONTACTS ME, I SAID I WAS MAD AT HIM SO HE APOLOGIZED. WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIM? IT WAS HIS IDEA TO LEAVE ME ALONE. THIS WASN'T THE 1ST FIGHT WE'VE HAD BUT IT IWAS THE 1ST TIME HE'S TOLD ME 2 LEAVE HIM ALONE. THEN HE JUST CONTACTS ME OUT OF NOWHERE?!
2006-09-09 16:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this isn't a trick question, im not n2 games so keep the sassy comments 2 yourselfs. thank u/
2006-09-09 17:00:46 · update #1
Well just because he doesn't want to 'be' with you doesn't mean he's stopped caring about you. Perhaps he called to see how you were? He just wanted some space, but didn't want to 'never talk to you again' is how I'm reading this situation.
2006-09-09 16:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think u two are actually still in love. Especially him. Im sure he is fighting with him self bout you two(You and his current gf). Im sure he likes u more than his current gf. the problem is he cant realy decide which one is right now. Hows like this, you wait some more just let it like that and treat him as b4. No need to fight anymore. Be passion. Im sure he'll come back to you. It just take a little time :)
2006-09-09 23:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Maurice Phoenix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you and him had decided you both to be friends, so you both are ~~!he called you as a friend not gf. From what i read i can see you still care for him.that's why you are angry cz you are at the middle wheather you want to be him as friends or gf. if you ingore and keep on it, the problem will never solve. you must make a choice. friends or gf. i know is hard when you both was once love and now you had pulled out be friends again,it takes time to getr used to it. if he called you the next time and you felt ok to hang out (no kiss and fancy dinner just movie or having a tea) that mean you pass the 'just be friend 'test.
if you both are friends at the first place and become lover, i must say that's kinda easy but the opposite way, you have to pull yourself out.
aaron
2006-09-09 23:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may still have feelings for you or he may just want his cake and eat it too. He knows that you like him so maybe he is just trying to keep you around in one way or another just in case it dont work with her.
2006-09-09 23:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Queen J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetheart? Nobody cares.
2006-09-09 23:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by bionicRod 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you stopped giving him attention he realized that he enjoyed it. He doesn't want you but still wants you to want him. Move on!
2006-09-09 23:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE SOUND LIKE HE WANT TO MAINTAIN A FRIENDSHIP WITH
YOU AND THAT NORMAL AFTER BEING TOGETHER FOR
A LONG PERIOD OF TIME. SO ACCEPT IS APOLOGY AND
TALK TO HIM AS A FRIEND. BUT KEEP IT CAUSAL.
2006-09-09 23:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He feels bad, he didn't mean it, he just felt insecure. He wants to be friends, but be friends, and move on.
2006-09-09 23:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by locomonohijo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u both loves drama in ur life
so stick together
2006-09-09 23:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All caps aaagggghh
2006-09-09 23:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋