my best friend tells me stuff about her family and stuff. I guess i kinda try 2 get her 2 see the good side of things. U think this is right or u think i should just stick up for her and agree and if u dont' think either of these r good ideas what do u think i should say?
2006-09-09 16:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by A0I5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is your best friend, you should be able to tell if the problems are really her to blame or, its her family at fault. I would just tell her the truth, letting her see the light at every angle. Just think about what she says and what your response maybe before you answer.
What you really have to do is, what she asks you, you turn it around and ask it right back. That's what I do.
My best friend may say," I thinks my man is cheating and what should she do?" "I would respond by, do you think that he is cheating or do you know that he is cheating?" Then ask for examples. One thing about best friends is that you've been friends for so long, that you can read each other like a book and that anything you say to each other, may hurt but only for a min. or two.
great luck
2006-09-09 16:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. If you think she is in danger or it's going to affect her, give her your opinion (if she asks). Otherwise, just listen and be a good friend.
2006-09-09 23:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say....friend is someone thst will tell you the truth regardless..and if that friend doent like what you telling her ..she needs to grow up!you just being friend ..not a parent..so all she could do is listen your opinion.But if you thing that she is very sensitive to opinions.. be a friend and respect that..meaning tell her your opinion in very gantle way
2006-09-09 23:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by MJ1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real friends tell friends what they think thats why their your friend. but i would not be cruel but tack full but tell her what you think. do not agree to everything she says if you really don't see it that way.
2006-09-09 23:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin, let her vent. your her support group.
2006-09-09 23:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋