well, iv been going out with my girlfriend for one year TODAY!! * sept 9th..and we didnt even get to hang out because i got angry in the morning for something she said and we both ended up hanging out with our friends and i feel really bad and i dont think she really cares at all that we didnt spend the day together she called me and was like i had a great day and she seemed happy and all but im misrible..shoudl i break up with her?..im 15 by the way..
2006-09-09 16:40:36 · 20 answers · asked by jon s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how you must feel. Try not to internalize things that happen in any relationship that you may enter into at this time of your life. Young girls can be ditsy at times, and by the same token, boys can be funny too. I don't want to trivialize your relationship but ..... never mind. scratch that.
This is what I have told my son. Girls come and they go. Don't sweat the small crap. Don't go acting like the sun rises and sets on any girls butt. If she wants treat you in a way that you don't like, acting as if she doesn't care, say, "Next!!!" Move on to the next girl. You are young and shouldn't lock yourself down too tightly like that anyway. And like what happened in my son's case, she wanted him back but it was too late. Some other girl was watching him and that's who he is with now. But you are unusual. I thought usually the girl got all excited over the one-year anniversary. She must not know what she has in you.
Take care and cheer up.
2006-09-09 16:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by ihaftaknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prolly only said that cause she was completely bummed that uns weren't 2gether and u both hung out w/ frinds instead and u didn't make an effort to catch up with her throughout the day
and she's prolly still super pissed that u got mad at her for nothing that morning and that u didn't bother to track her down and like give her flowers and candy and an apology and make a big fuss over the fact that it was an anniversary and that uns shoulda been together for a large portion of the day
try this take her out tomorrow, apologize over and over again about beeing an *** for no reason and that u didn't make the effort to get her to hang out with you
and buy her flowers, candy, a card, and perfume
all this with the apology should get an equal apology from her and uns'll be good for a while
i wouldn't break up with her over that b/c i do that a lot when i get mad, yanno shrug it off even though its bothering me cause my b/f should kno if summin he did bothered me or not yanno
:)
2006-09-09 16:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by stangracer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u break-up this relationship then u must break-up plenty more n the future becuz all relationships have ruff patches and it's the sparks that keep things going and if u're not happy and she is that means she didn't let that disagreement bother her like u did. She probably thought u just needed space 2 kool off. Be the bigger person and see what's going on with u and her. STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF AND UR RELATIONSHIPS OR U'LL NEVER BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-09 16:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by mz.sexylady07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you said you were 15 i could of guessed somewhere in that age group. a year why do you waste a year . for one thing your 15 don't pair up so young believe me you have that yrs and yrs. 15 be free have fun and hang out with your friends don't get tied down at 15. by all means break up .
2006-09-09 16:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not that many 15 year olds can sustain a relationship for a year...so i'd say don't break up and just talk to her and try to work things out. if you got angry at her over something small, then you should apologize to her. and then tell her how her actions hurt you.
2006-09-09 16:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude, that's the biggest run on sentence ever. Have you heard of puncuation? Second, you're obviously 15 because you're acting like a douche bag. Grow some balls in, and tell her you're sorry. Then hang out with her.
2006-09-09 16:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES,ITS BEST TO BREAK UP WITH HER NOW !She went out with someone else & chances are she had slept with someone to spite u.She was happily making love ,doing heavy petting with another guy.Its a fact that she did enjoys herself so much that she seemed very happy.Sorry dude,but whatever is done ,is done..so move on with yr life
2006-09-09 16:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. You are too young for a long term girlfriend. It isn't like you are going to marry her, so quit wasting your time. What are you getting out of the relationship anyways?
2006-09-09 16:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-09 16:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just as hurt as you are and trying to make you think she's not. Don't put a lot of importance on anniversaries, and don't break up with her unless alot of other stuff happens. but definitely not over this.
2006-09-09 16:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Maybur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋