I've asked questions about this guy before, so bare with me please. I've seen my casual lover/bf/best friend for more 1.5yrs, about every wk/wknd. Went through alot 2gether, but never really became 2 serious. We both weren't really ready for a serious relationship but always gave each other mixed signals of something that could be more. He asked twice where I bought my jewelry from, & said awhile back that it'd be fun 2 get a log cabin 2gether, where he is from. He understood the fact that my parents were a lil better off than his, like he'd always compare them, maybe to see if I'd look down upon them, which I would NEVER do, if I liked him, I'd like his parents. I'm a city girl, he's from a small town, so I guess I seemed more uppity to him, but tried 2 show him that I liked him 4 who he was, not money. I always dressed nice cuz I like fashion(used 2 model) But I used 2 like the simple life, outdoor life like he does now. And now I regret that I didn't show him I can be like that.
2006-09-09 16:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm having trouble with the "what ifs" and now I since he moved away, I'm having a hard time coping with what could've been if I would've been more laid back how I used to be. I thought after seeing him more than a year, it didn't bother him that much & he liked me for who I was. But I wish I could've showed him that I can live like he lives. I've learned a lesson that I want to share with him, but it's the fact that money doesn't make you happy, people do, and he made me happy. We're keeping in touch, but I want to be honest with him, & not be so showy anymore because that's not me. I was being dishonest with myself & I think that hurt my chances with him. What should I do? How should I handle this? I really miss him, but I want to give him time to get situated. When should be the nex time I contact him, his bday is Sept 11.
Sorry I had to be more clear so I asked again. But please, I need all the help I can get on this, I want to make this work even though he's 5 hrs away by drive.
2006-09-09 16:50:44 · update #1
I appreciate all answers, thank you.
2006-09-09 16:53:56 · update #2
It's never too late to show someone your real self. Hopefully he'll be smart enough to listen. You sound like a great girl.
Good luck :)
2006-09-09 16:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, sweetie......he moved away and it is over. Move to another chapter in your life. People come and go throughout your life....it is just the way it is. Some years down the road, you won't even remember his name. If you learned something from this relationship then that is good.......carry it with you and don't make the same mistake in the next relationship......that is what life is all about....learning our lessons and moving on.
2006-09-09 23:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself but r u ready to be part of it?it won't the same life you used to have when you are a model, i hope you can seriously think aobut it. if you think that is the lief style you are looking for then fo for it ~!is for you happiness~!never left regret in your life.
aaron
2006-09-09 23:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to go after him. Your in love with the man. Go get him girl don't let things get in your way
2006-09-09 23:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never too late to do what needs to be done, go for it , and good luck
2006-09-09 23:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god you just asked this question
and i ignored it
the answer is i dont know. and please dont repeat a post, people ignored it the first time for a reason and i ignored it again cause its boring!
2006-09-09 23:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋