Family & Relationships - 9 September 2006

I find that I am great as a friend. I was a great friend to my man before we were married. I didn't ever concern myself with extramarital problems, or "if he sleeps with some one else", or "if I am attractive enough" , or how about this one " I am a brunette, and he likes blonds" (who doesn't!!!)
Why is it that now that we are married, I am thinking about these stupid, assinine things??? I just want to be a friend again, not a "wife". How do I do this??
Men, please, you answer too. I really love my man, and I want to be ok as well as continue making him happy. Don't pull any punches. I am strong enough to handle the truth, i just need some good advice on how to make the transistion from friend to wife easily enough.

2006-09-09 15:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by Fitchurg Girl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does my b/f want my dads e-mail? I mean he never talks to him and now all of a sudden he wants to talk to my dad. What does he nees to talk about with my dad?

2006-09-09 15:28:55 · 11 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 15:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate them for what they did to me..I am deaf and they don't want learn to sign language. they think sign language is so hard to learn. I think it is bull ****. I am married . They are worry when other ppl think who I am.. I am so sick of my parents.. I can't forgive my parents for what they did to me..I tried to love them but I cant..My feelings is not right for them..

2006-09-09 15:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by haley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy'bob.'..but his best friend asked me to homecoming and idk what to do cuz i like both guys but i like the 'bob' a little more...but he didnt ask me to homecoming..but i think he likes me cuz when i said yes to his friend he go all weird..but he didnt ask me to homecoming...what should i do?

2006-09-09 15:26:45 · 5 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Singles & Dating

He loves me and has said it before and always came back to me. He always misses me too much. Is he trying to make me suffer and see what i've done wrong so i wont do it again?

2006-09-09 15:26:27 · 35 answers · asked by ava 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy that i have liked forever and during class i cant help myself to look at him but then he'll catch me and look and then sometimes ill catch him looking. I definately think this year could be the year something could happen. But then sometimes his name on aim and msn will be "YOU ARE SO F***ING SEXY CHRISTINE!" so does that mean i shouldnt bother doing something if he is sayingthings like this? I dont know who Christine is but like for all i know she hacked his account or something and wrote that or they were togetehr wen they wrote it. who knows, but should i not bother going after him if hes gonna be saying stuff like this?

2006-09-09 15:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by amber k 2 in Singles & Dating

its just questions used to be inetresting but now its like every one asks the same thing lol,
does any one else notice this???

2006-09-09 15:25:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM 14, my brother is 15. My mom left my brother and i home alone for 4 days straight... how can i use this against her? I am really wanting to live anywhere but here. How would i go about that?

2006-09-09 15:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Family

MY BOYFRIEND HAS A BAD HABIT THAT I RECENTLY DISCOVERED. I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE AND MOVE ON OR ACCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS.

THE HABIT IS COCAINE....HE DOES IT ABOUT 2 TIMES A WEEK. I DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT THIS BEFORE BECAUSE HE NEVER LET ME KNOW...NOW THAT I KNOW HE SAYS HE FEELS BETTER BECUASE HE CAN DO IT AROUND ME AND NOT HAVE TO HIDE IT. IT'S NOT LIKE AN EVERYDAY HABIT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF I AM ASKING FOR TROUBLE OR NOT. I HAVE BAD HABITS AND I DON'T THINK I WOULD LIKE FOR HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE JUST BECUASE OF IT......WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-09-09 15:24:18 · 29 answers · asked by KOTTONKANDIE4URSOUL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whats ur height and which height would you prefer for your partner to be?? if a guy is 5'9'' whats the shortest and tallest girls he could date?? do you take heels in consideration?

2006-09-09 15:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 15:23:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey well its not really a problem just dont no if i should or not lol but n e wayz my bf and i were talking and we were thinking about sneeking out tonight but just in my back yard in my lil hid out place.But i dont know if i should sneek out or not b/c i never snuck out b4 lol i kno its lame but o well.And i just do not really know if i should or not so just please give me some good advice lol o and i mean getting a lot of mean advice like thats a stupid ? idc if it is or not i wnna know it so yea but plz dont send mean ones kuz they hurt my feelings lol well thanks a lot hopefully tonight works out

2006-09-09 15:23:07 · 6 answers · asked by thick_chikk_01 1 in Singles & Dating

open question for anyone

2006-09-09 15:22:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See, i'm a 13 yr old girl, and this guy at my school's 17. He's really cute and funny...

He also has the personality of my dreams!!! He's smart- not like those stupid jocks ya see everywhere.


Do you think the age difference is too big? Or is it ok for us to date?

2006-09-09 15:21:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cursed ma ex out like last year but it still eats me up inside every time i c a couple... and i miss her so much but its been like almost a year so i m finally willing to say im sorry and get bac .. (shes still single) i wanna do somthing besides buying her somthing .. i need som really gud words .. so say .. and som thing i could do to impress her plz plz help me ASAP ....

2006-09-09 15:21:39 · 4 answers · asked by free_tibet 2 in Singles & Dating

Here are some of the things that straight-sex marriage has wrought through the ages: polygamy, child-brides, loveless arrangements, trafficked women, bartered wives, battered wives, raped wives, sexual slavery, child abuse and abandonment, racist miscegenation laws, and astronomical divorce rates. If gays are unqualified for marriage, what can we say about straights? If George Bush and his homophobic worshippers really want to defend the institution of marriage, they can begin by taking an honest look at the ugly situations within so many heterosexual unions in this country and throughout the world.

2006-09-09 15:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok my parnets dont take me seriously because iwant to be a porn star when i grow up im 13 and its not even because im fast or anytihng itsjust that i find sex interesting and that it should be explored more.

this is gonna sound stupid crazy but its the truth:
when i was a little kid like five or six i was sexually abused by a family friend for a couple of yrs and yes i hated it but after that i found sex interesting and weird at the same time . yea i had a bunch of therapy and strinks and im fine but i still want to be this and my mom just thinks i need more therapy because my phychiatrist tihins i have osme type of damaged goods effect problem or whatever!!! help

2006-09-09 15:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by this little american star 1 in Family

please help me answer this age old question!

2006-09-09 15:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by julikae32 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-09 15:20:42 · 21 answers · asked by NB 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to turn 20 and she's about to turn 15 I told her I won't do this then she's forcing me to do it. I was like" what if your parents find out then they put me in jail or something? or what if I have done something wrong to you?" she was like " I promise nothing bad would happend, trust me my parents won't find out, the only way you can go to jail is only a cop catch us having sex or something that's the only way you would get in trouble" that's what she said !!

2006-09-09 15:20:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 15:20:00 · 2 answers · asked by devil gal 1 in Friends

2006-09-09 15:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by SweetP 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 15:19:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16, and Last time me and my boyfriend broke up becase I thought he was cheating on me, in fact I became parinoid. So I broke it off. The girl that I thought he liked, he ended up at her house the night that I broke up with him, and dating her shortly after. He cheated on her and was a major player... This guy was my first love and my first kiss... and we now are trying to wrok things out, but I just cant forget the past and what happened. My heart tells me I want to give it another go, but my head tells me not to. So pretty much what I wanna know is, should I follow my heart or my head. And what would you do in this situation? If go for it... How do I rebuild trust?

2006-09-09 15:19:18 · 6 answers · asked by Jenni 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend says he REALLY likes me and I should go out with him because he's rich and so i don't make him feel bad but going out with him because of pity i think is even worse! HELP!

2006-09-09 15:19:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have to finsih my hw before i can go anywhere..

2006-09-09 15:18:43 · 25 answers · asked by Stephanie 3 in Singles & Dating

but one of my other best friends gives you hugs when you say bye.

Both Guys....

2006-09-09 15:18:30 · 7 answers · asked by Talk alote 2 in Friends

A female friend just told me this is a common fantasy, and I was surprised to hear it. I mean, I know this is a guy's fantasy to be with two girls, but I didn't think this a common thing for women to want two dudes.

2006-09-09 15:18:16 · 6 answers · asked by Juan Valdez 2 in Singles & Dating

ive liked a girl for a long time. shes always rejected me. a few weeks ago i told her that i would move on (i didnt) now i have reason to believe there may be hope for me. what should i do?

2006-09-09 15:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by kyle caudill 2 in Singles & Dating