I'm about to turn 20 and she's about to turn 15 I told her I won't do this then she's forcing me to do it. I was like" what if your parents find out then they put me in jail or something? or what if I have done something wrong to you?" she was like " I promise nothing bad would happend, trust me my parents won't find out, the only way you can go to jail is only a cop catch us having sex or something that's the only way you would get in trouble" that's what she said !!
2006-09-09 15:20:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's forcing you to do it? Grow up. You're an adult. Or, you're at the age where you should be entering 'adulthood'. Just tell her no. Jeez.
2006-09-09 15:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there! I'm not just saying that because of the age difference because I believe if it's consentual there is no problem.(Unless she was like 12 and the guy was 20) But I don't see a problem with a 15 year old and a 20 year old. The law however says different. And of course if she's more interested in having sex when you feel uncomfortable then having an understanding relationship then she's not worth it. Besides that if she won't even let you meet her parents then she's got some whole other issues and maybe sex is her way of rebbeling. And do you really want to have sex with somebody for a lame reason like that? Good Luck.
2006-09-09 15:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by cloudberry84321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You CAN go to jail.
I suggest you give this girl some space.
If she is "forcing" you to have sex she may have other plans for you too...like "forcing" you to marry her.
Seriously do yourself a favor and let it cool down a bit...maybe "take a break" and try to find someone your own age.
She is a girl...not ready to be out in the world with adult responsibilities. She should be thinkng about graduating form High School and going to college or getting her first job.
You are a man with adult responsibilities. You are thinking of getting through college or advancing a career you may have already started, paying for transportation and housing, finding a mate to share those things comes second to building a stable life for yourself.
Once you have yourself up and running you can consider adding a lovely lady and perhaps children to the mix.
You really DON'T want the kids before you can provide for them. Being a Dad is hard enough when you have most of the pieces in place!
Should you become sexually active with this girl you can bet it will not sit well wth her parents. So if you do really love her you will be throwing a monkey wrench into that relationship to. If you really love her and want to spend your life with her wouldn't you rather start things off on the right foot with her parents?
You would be wise to stand your ground with this young woman. But I think you really already know that and are just looking for affirmation.
Wishing you all the best life has to offer.
2006-09-09 15:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH she's forcing you to ? What is she doing holding a gun to your head ...Grow up !!! You are 20 years old and you are going to end up in jail if you touch that girl...You really believe she isn't going to tell her parents?..You are naive ...She probably hasn't had sex before and when you do it with her it will hurt and she will go tell her mom and dad...
What would you rather do...Spend your next 20 to 30 years out side enjoying life...or in jail because thats where you are going to end up!!! Do not go near her or even talk to her again
2006-09-09 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you are 20 you know better than that,She is forcing you,no way,you need to back off be for she cries wolf and you end up in jail and with a branded name,it happens all the time,you better believe it.
2006-09-09 15:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 15 how in the hell does she know? there's a 5 year difference, and if her parents find out, they CAN have you put in jail, tell this girl to pick up a book and READ!
2006-09-09 15:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by david_e22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will go to jail, dont you read the papers or watch the news , guys who do younger girls go to jail !!! remember push 2 pull 20 AND DONT believe it when she says my parents wont find out if you piss her off she WILL TELL ON YOU IN A NEW YORK SECOND!!!!!!! WALK AWAY also if you get caught you will
be labeled a sex preditor and have register with police depts.in every town you move too !!!!!!!
2006-09-09 15:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by augydoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no. She's not good enough for you if she's putting this much pressure on you. She's a freshman or sophmore in highschool. You're in adult. She needs to grow up, and even if you love her, it's still illegal. Wait a year, although it's still illegal, see if there is still love there, and talk to her about it. Don't do it. Just don't. The best thing to do is wait or end the relationship. She's too young to give part of herself to you, or anyone for that matter. She needs to grow up emotionally.
2006-09-09 15:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by <3 See Jane Run <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. No one can force you to have sex with them. Your horny *** just wants to. Better go find you someone that isn't under age or you'll be someone's ***** in jail. Heck she could get mad at you if you do something wrong and all she has to do is go tell mommy and daddy you forced her...HELLO WAKE UP!!!!!
2006-09-09 15:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by ...+**+swtmumma+**+... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 will get u 20
2006-09-09 15:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by lil mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 20 and shes 15... You will go to Jail for statutory rape. And you will be a rapist for ever.
2006-09-09 15:25:38 · answer #11 · answered by acidicmarrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋