Im 16, and Last time me and my boyfriend broke up becase I thought he was cheating on me, in fact I became parinoid. So I broke it off. The girl that I thought he liked, he ended up at her house the night that I broke up with him, and dating her shortly after. He cheated on her and was a major player... This guy was my first love and my first kiss... and we now are trying to wrok things out, but I just cant forget the past and what happened. My heart tells me I want to give it another go, but my head tells me not to. So pretty much what I wanna know is, should I follow my heart or my head. And what would you do in this situation? If go for it... How do I rebuild trust?
2006-09-09 15:19:18 · 6 answers · asked by Jenni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your head. You're 16 - why waste your time with a guy you don't trust? You're not going to marry him so it's really not worth putting a lot of effort into the relationship, and you don't want to get into the habit of staying in relationships with guys you don't trust. You need to start out right and give yourself the respect you deserve by only being with guys you can trust and who make you happy.
2006-09-09 15:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone burns you once and you can't trust them. Don't give it another go. Basically you will have a battle in your mind thinking he is cheating. There are lots of other fishies in the sea, don't just think of him as your only hope for another relationship! I made that mistake when I was younger, and its just not worth it. Go looking elsewhere.....try and find someone with a head on their shoulders...trust me that is hard to find at that age...
2006-09-09 15:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by ...+**+swtmumma+**+... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too involve into a relationship, study comes first. This relationship with your ex will not last if the past still linger in your heart. Give it up as you are still young. I would not bother to give him a chance if he cheats before, you would not know when he will cheat again.
2006-09-09 15:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by wan2knowhow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone, its hard to let them go, but if you know he wont like you the way you like him, it may not be the best idea to go out with him. trust me, there are tons of guys out there who want a good relationship, not like this guy
2006-09-09 15:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bensius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him and think it would work out then go for it...just take things slow
if it was me and he was my first love i would take him back but not let myself get as close to him until u i could truly trust him again..
!!.. love is pain ..!!
2006-09-09 15:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't, he's a player and your just going to get hurt again, why would you want to put yourself threw that again?
2006-09-09 15:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋