Boyfriend and his bad habit?

Question

MY BOYFRIEND HAS A BAD HABIT THAT I RECENTLY DISCOVERED. I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE AND MOVE ON OR ACCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS.

THE HABIT IS COCAINE....HE DOES IT ABOUT 2 TIMES A WEEK. I DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT THIS BEFORE BECAUSE HE NEVER LET ME KNOW...NOW THAT I KNOW HE SAYS HE FEELS BETTER BECUASE HE CAN DO IT AROUND ME AND NOT HAVE TO HIDE IT. IT'S NOT LIKE AN EVERYDAY HABIT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF I AM ASKING FOR TROUBLE OR NOT. I HAVE BAD HABITS AND I DON'T THINK I WOULD LIKE FOR HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE JUST BECUASE OF IT......WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

You should avoid people into drugs. Why? They're in contact with drug dealers. Drug dealers never bring anything but bad news, death, and crime.

Answer 2

Cocaine isn't just another bad habit, like biting your fingernails or eating too much. It's a serious issue, and it causes guys to have really bad mood swings. It costs a lot of money and makes it so people can't hold down jobs. It's highly addictive. Would you want to be married to a guy who couldn't hold down a job and had a very expensive habit? I sure wouldn't, and I don't see the point in putting much effort into a relationship that's going to end anyway.

He might quit some day. Break up with him now and take him back later (like in a few years), if he stops completely, if you want to.

Answer 3

basically a cocaine habit can only have bad news, i mean? whats the good news in this? that hes comfortable to do it around you know you know? i think it makes it worse and he'll do it more.
might ask you to take a hit? then what..

its not a drug to get hooked onto and in therms of bad habits, like picking your nose, stuff like cocaine is a different story. if he was doing marujina, i dont think its that a big a deal, but cocaine is.
i know you like him but how does it make you feel that he does this?

i guess if you care for him and you stick with him, and something happens, the only person you can blame is yourself becuase you know the risks.

really, i think you hate him doing it, but you really care for him so your looking for some justification to stay with him....
the question is do you stay with your boyfriend when he does cocaine?. answer: your first response is the truest....yes or no.

Answer 4

Whoa, okay. First of all, you may have bad habits-- we all do, but cocaine is not just a bad habit. It's an addiction and can severely ruin his life and yours if it gets too serious. My advice to you would be to talk to him about it, tell him you don't approve of it. If he doesn't change his ways knowing how you feel about it-- give him an ultimatum. It's you or the blow. If he truly cares about you, he'll knock the habit. If he doesn't or sneaks it behind your back, then he's not worth it and you should leave him. I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 5

I could maybe understand pot or even shrooms, but cocaine is a really bad thing to get addicted too. After awhile he may get so comfortable doing it around you that he'll get too consumed. He'll eventually forget about everything in his life, even you and become revolved around the cocaine. If I were you I would tell him that he needs to get help and quit. Tell him that you would be more than willing to help him through it if wants. If he declines or argues with you about it, then you need to let him go. Of course it will be difficult, but sometimes it's what's best for everyone.

Answer 6

be careful, cocain habbits come with terrible mood swings. You have to really think about what you want and how it makes you feel. Chances are if he is telling you he is doing it twice a week, it is more. High end drugs like that are nothing to mess around with, and you could end up heading down a really rocky road. Tak to him about your feelings surrounding it, and make your decision based on his reation to your feelings. If he gets mad and defensive about it, then take that as a sign and walk. If he can't understand and accept your feelings aboutthis, then what kind of future do you have anyways. Be very cautious. Good luck.

Answer 7

You are asking for trouble. Cocaine is a dangerous drug. Its an addiction not a habit hun and your BF needs help. I would try and have him see what is going on when he is on it. It can be dangerous if you are around him and he gets a bad hit... and you become a target of a rage... just be careful!

Answer 8

He's a drug addict, apparently you hadn't noticed. Is this person worth you potentially going to prison for? If you're caught with him and he has cocaine, you're in trouble too, and how long do you think it will take before he wants you to try it? He'll tell you it will make the sex better, but he won't tell you it puts you on the fast track to addiction, and use of other drugs.

Answer 9

Sweetie, I hate to say this but RUN!!!! His cocaine habit will only get worse. Believe me, I know from experience. My ex-boyfriend was first a coke head, and now it's even worse. He is now a crack head. Have you ever seen someone so paranoid, they hang on the a.c cord for an hour so sure someone is trying to steal it?? It gets worse over time. I was with him for 2 years, and
after awhile, you just got to let go. If you wanna talk about it email me. Ok. Hope this will help.

Answer 10

Cocaine is not a habit--it is an additciton. You are asking for trouble if you stick around and he continues to do it. Listen to your heart. Accepting someone for who they are is great--but not when they are doing something that can hurt or even kill them. Would you accept an alcoholic for who they are?

Answer 11

It's one thing to have a bad habit- but cocaine is illegal, it can get him into a lot of trouble- and if you're with him you can get into trouble too. Tell him that you don't like it and that he can't do it or have it around you. If he doesn't listen, get rid of him.