ok my parnets dont take me seriously because iwant to be a porn star when i grow up im 13 and its not even because im fast or anytihng itsjust that i find sex interesting and that it should be explored more.
this is gonna sound stupid crazy but its the truth:
when i was a little kid like five or six i was sexually abused by a family friend for a couple of yrs and yes i hated it but after that i found sex interesting and weird at the same time . yea i had a bunch of therapy and strinks and im fine but i still want to be this and my mom just thinks i need more therapy because my phychiatrist tihins i have osme type of damaged goods effect problem or whatever!!! help
2006-09-09 15:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by this little american star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have to come back to reality...put yourself in your parents shoes...would you want your daughter being a porn star..if you answer this question by saying yes...you still have a lot of therapy to go through...stick with it
2006-09-09 15:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reasons for wanting to become a porn "star" make no sense.
I'm sorry that you may have been abused as a young child, but understand that getting into the adult video industry will only set you up for more abuse.
You might get paid a couple of thousand dollars to have some dude videotape you and another guy having sex, but after a couple of times, they'll look for another "star", and you'll be cast aside. If you straighten out your life afterwards, then you'll always have those videos floating around on the internet for your kids to see.
You have a lot of time to think about it, since no "legitimate" porn producer will even come near you before you're 18 (they don't want to spend their lives in jail)
I'm more worried about you in the short term.... Sleeping with guys won't make you popular, but it will make you a 'sl*ut', and you don't want that reputation.
Don't set yourself up for more abuse. Stay away from drugs and gangs and don't sleep around. Sounds like your parents love you, and you should listen to them. You wanna 'explore'? Explore math, science, history, literature... Be somebody special, don't be a troubled tramp that no one will care about.
You may not see it, but your parents truly love you.
2006-09-09 22:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by marsminute 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think 13 is a little young to decide on this as a career. it is not unusual for people who are sexually abused to think like this. i agree with your mom. i really think you should get some really good therapy so that you don't continue to feel the need to be exploited - which is what being a female porn star is all about. it is degrading...and really not a very good aspiration in life for a 13 year old. and you telling your parents this is what you want to be leads me to believe it is not what you want. did you really expect them to support you in this? come on! get some help from someone who specializes in this area...
2006-09-09 22:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by firenice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with your shrink and your parents. I hope that you get the help that you need to work through the horrible trauma you have been through.
If you still want to go into the adult entertainment business when you are 18, then your parents can't stop you because you will be an adult.
But for right now, listen to your parents and your shrink. They are trying to help you get better and keep you from being hurt like that again.
2006-09-09 22:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by flapperchick13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sugar listen to your mom. You definitely need more therapy. With all the opportunities you have why on earth would you want to be in an industry that degrades and dehumanize women? Have more respect for yourself.
2006-09-09 22:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by college@44 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents, they are always right. But if you want to be a porn star, I hope you all the best. You may change your mind when you get older. But I do wish you the best.
2006-09-09 22:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you grow up and become more mature i'm sure you'll think differently
2006-09-09 22:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋