Or the other way around? Would you girls date a guy if he wasn't willing to have sex? I mean, not because they are odd or paranoid about it but just because they want to wait until marriage. Whats your opinions?
2006-09-09 16:00:26 · 30 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would LOVE to find a woman who isn't willing to have sex. I respect them much more because regardless, they stick to their idea of waiting until marriage. I think that's hot
2006-09-09 16:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
My friend and me talk about this alot of times, but I think that some guys like girls that is more of a challenge then just easy or very promiscuous in away. Personally I would like to date a guy that doesn't have sex on top of his list, for me it would be best to date a guy that's a virgin ( though I think it very few..lol) A least I wouldn't worry about a week after we start dating he wantes to have sex, and I always been a big fan of sex after marriage.
2006-09-09 16:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by TruStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would much rather date a woman who did not want to have sex too soon in the relationship.If she will give it up that easy to me,she probably has given it up to a lot of people easy.For me it just means that she respects herself and has some morals.This is the kind of woman men keep if their smart.It means she has good values and sticks to them.And would probably make an excellent wife/mother. If a guy/girl won't wait,all they wanted was the sex anyway.It's better to find that out early,so you can move on to finding a quality companion who wants to get to know something about you,other than when your going to put out for them.
2006-09-09 16:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by yablomee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im waiting till marriage and so is my boyfriend. its not as uncommon as you think. most of my friends (both male and female) are waiting until marriage. and like you said its not cause we are paranoid we just wanna save it for that someone special.
also, i really hope you dont base whether or not you wait on these answers, people will put answers on the internet just too look cool, you know theres a lot of nerds on here that are going to be like omg im doing it all the time, but really they dont know what sex is sort of thing. so just do what you think is right. im also thinking i cant wait to tell my kids, when i was your age sex was really accepted and i waited till my wedding nite.
and plus this should make my wedding nite the most exciting night of my life!
2006-09-09 16:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A friend of mine was dated by a guy as a last check to see if he was gay. Bad way to find out, for both of them.
There are lots of people who have religious beliefs and values prefer it that they don't have sex before marriage. I can respect that.
In my life, I don't take my sexual advice from old men who don't have any personal sexual experience, preaching from a god, who also doesn't have any personal human sexual experience. This is just me, and therefore I don't continue dating girls who are not willing to have safe sex before marriage.
2006-09-09 23:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say it doesn't matter, some say it doesn't matter if the girl/guy has been sexually active a lot.
But what kind of respect would you have for that person? Would you really want to marry a girl who had slept with half the school?
Sure; I dated half a hundred girls without having sex with any of them, and had fun, too!
2006-09-09 16:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. That doesn't mean that that's right or wrong. It just wouldn't work for me. I'm older now and the women that I date all have had families and sex is a different thing for us. We start slow, make it last and then don't think about it for a couple of days. That takes a lot of the taboo out of it for us. We don't talk about performance, but more about pleasure. It's the touch thing humans need and we enjoy it for that. Do what's good for you and good luck.
2006-09-09 16:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got an awful lot of marriage proposals that way. Guys really like a girl who has good morals and saves herself for marriage. I just wish I would have had the common sense to accept the right marriage proposal at that point in my life . . . .
2006-09-09 16:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not dated anyone like that, but after getting married the sex has come to a complete stop. I thought it was suppose to be the other way around?
2006-09-09 18:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by darlene_b_bain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married now, but I never asked a girl whether she was willing or not before asking her out. We always ended up having sex, regardless of her initial thoughts on waiting. There have been a couple of times when someone has decided we should, and I've said no, because I thought they were making a mistake.
2006-09-09 16:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny Tezca 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋