So theres this boy @ skool that i have a huge crush on but i'm confused how he feels. a few yrs we were good friends but then a grl told him i liked him & after she did that he stopped talking 2 me for the rest of that year and the nxt but this summer he started emailing me everyday & instant messaging me. i can catch him looking at me like @ lunch and stuff but when he knows that i can see him he turns quick! he talks to my bff al the time and tells her compliments about me but he never tells me anything. when we go to asemblies and stuff his friends and i r all friends so we sit nxt to eachother but he always sits furthest away.every once in a while though he sits really close with only one person in between us. but when i talk to my friends he comes up to and walks so close to me that i would trip him if i took a step forward. he hardly every says hi but when he does his face goes super red!Sometimes when he is talking to his friends he points at me and they all look and when i look at them they all put their fingers down and turn around.. he smiles at me all the ime and talks to me 24/7 on the comp. but he turns really red when i say hi at skool. i am so confused!!what do u think?
2006-09-09 15:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the prob. is that i get just as nervous as he does..i mostly just get tongue tied but every once in a while i turn red!
2006-09-09 16:14:38 · update #1
It's quite obvious he likes you... I have no idea why you are confused.
2006-09-09 15:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that when a third party(that other girl)told him that you liked him.It got him all confused.At that age "I like him"could mean anything.It could range from you wanting to be his best friend to you wanting to sleep with him.
I'm not saying that's what he believes.I doubt if he knows for sure.Thats probably why he is keeping his distance.So he won't be in a position that will have him do or say something stupid.
What you need to do is to have a talk with him soon.Let him know how you really feel.And say it so that there are no doubts left.
Do it soon.I've seen it many times where friends were lost because of what what was heard from other people.
2006-09-09 23:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by david g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it's obvious to both of us that he likes you, right? RIGHT! the question is do you like him back? Like him as a friend or a little more? You have to figure out your feelings first, If you want this to progress into a relationship do something about it. But if not don't lead him on. If you would like this to progress, keep talking to him, I know his face might turn as red as a beet but show him that you can tell that he likes you and you have the same feelings in return for him. That might let him know ok i can chill out a little she feels the same way. Then as time goes on, talk to him more in public maybe he's not comfortable talking to you in public but if he sees that you don't have a problem with it, more than likely he won't either. If your calm and not nervous it might calm him down some. Then he might have more of the self confidence to talk to you in person vs. the computer. Hope this helps.
2006-09-09 23:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by raise_your_voice89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should allow the blood to flow to your brain more often so that you can realise that this kid's in love with you and obviously crippled by shyness.
Now it's up to you, you can either be the strong one, make the move and stop whining on Yahoo! answers, or find a boy with a more accomodating scrotal sac, who isn't satisfied with just jerking off to the thought of you into the bathroom sink.
The choice is yours, I guess.
Now, if you don't mind, I have more important things to do...
2006-09-09 23:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by monotol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like hes really shy and trying to get to you through your friend. What a punk ***. You should walk straight up to him and let him to grow some balls. It will suprise him and might hurt him but he'll proly come back and talk to you later because it will seem funny to him and it will break the silence between you two.
2006-09-09 23:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They boy is shy, but has the hots for you so bad that he is afraid if he speaks to you in person, he will get aroused, and be embarrassed. Blushing is frequently a sign of such arousal.
Take it easy, say hi, and when you see him, suggest that you meet after school, or something.
Right now he is simply not comfortable in your presence because he is afraid of being embarrassed.
Do you know what I mean by getting aroused?
2006-09-09 23:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants u. ask him out on a date. go see a movie, then have him over at ur house for a sleepover. when u 2 go to bed, let him sleep in ur bed with u, and make out. it will be very romantic
2006-09-09 23:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by king cobra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would Play hard to get if he like you that much he will make the first move.... make him work for it
2006-09-09 23:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he likes u but what u should do is just talk to him somewhere privite and to to each other about ur feelings and his and start from there
2006-09-09 23:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by mexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just also comfuse. be patient and he is just waiting for the right time to bust a move
2006-09-09 23:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by carendawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋