Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

He is confusing... Like he calls me every day and he tells me that he wants to see me all the time and that he misses me... But we have a past... I don't know if I can trust him or not he didn't cheat on me or anything cause we were never really together!! Maybe I have trust issues and should just let it go but... Sometimes there is just nothing to say on the phone and it is like akward silence!!!! But He is the kind where he is like really closed and not opened with anybody... He tells me that he wants to open to me though and He does I just am afraid of him I guess.... He might have the reputation from other people of being a player... He gives me no reason to doubt him so what should I do????

2006-09-07 13:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay how do i know if he is serious with me he keeps on rubbing my hip what does that mean

2006-09-07 13:11:31 · 6 answers · asked by NaNa BeAr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this guy
henry: best guy friend for 4 years now, we're seniors in highschool... connected from the start... went out twice b4 last time was last summer... talk everyday... hang everyday... tell each other everything... know everything about each other... going out again may lead to complications with our friends (other ppl that like him etc.) he's hott ... we tend to want each other... but other times we don't.... i guess our attraction to each other depends on the day
options?

getting back together is a possibility but it doesn't seem that good

ignore it? but i find a twist in my stomach everytime he's around other girls flirting kinda or just being friendly

just hook up? friends with benefits? and keep it on the dl cuz of ppl


suggestions?

2006-09-07 13:10:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 13:09:13 · 15 answers · asked by justmeadude43 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My whole family are Christians. My parents never went to dances to speak of, when they were in high school. So I never really have talked to them about it. In fact I've never really talked to them about girlfriends and stuff, I started to in 1st grade but got shied away when they kinda teased me a little bit. Ever since then I've denied having an interested in girls, now I am a Freshman, and dances and girls are a really big thing and definitely interest me. But I dont know how to really bring up such a subject, without feeling very awkward and embarassed. The dance I want to take this girl to is coming up, and I don't have the guts to ask my parents. It would be better if I could drive, but thats still a year away, so my parents are going to have to pick her up and everything :(. Please if you been in a situation like this tell me how to open up the conversation and convince your parents.

2006-09-07 13:08:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we met someone on the computer and she sent us some pictures of herself and my husband really likes this girl. everytime he thinks of her or sees a picture of her he gets a hard on but for some reason i don't get jealous why is that i wonder.

2006-09-07 13:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does anyone have a quiz that tells you if your crush likes you back? I really need to know! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

2006-09-07 13:06:39 · 18 answers · asked by Maggie L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so he's in 5th grade (I know he's young). He's been going out with this one girl that he really likes. but she broke with him today and he's soooo heart-broken! He even made up this story that he went out with 2 girls after her, then she got jealous and got back together with him! some story, huh? What should he do to get back with her?

2006-09-07 13:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by IamCat 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my closest friends at work is leaving and going to another job. I'll still see her every couple of weeks or so, but aside from a gift card I wanted to get her a little something for good luck in her new place of employment. Any ideas that don't include gift cards?

2006-09-07 13:06:01 · 3 answers · asked by empress_pam 4 in Friends

how do i start? Regarding men - i can't seem to make eye contact, start conversation or anything. i'm mid 30's so you'd think i'd know how, by now, but i don't. Is it not 'forward' for the girl to ask guys, or has that all changed in this day and age?? any suggestions appreciated. thanx

2006-09-07 13:05:14 · 19 answers · asked by Tivvy 3 in Singles & Dating

She talks to me then she ignores me the next day. She will hug almost any guy including me. She has a lot of guy friends that she talks to (not sure if she has a bf). I like her but is she worth it to go out with. Isn't there something that describes her? sl..
No I'm not jealous, I don't want ot f her, and I'm just wondering if this is normal.

2006-09-07 13:04:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating 10 months and I know this is right! Just wanting to know what the average is?

2006-09-07 13:04:48 · 24 answers · asked by Casey C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

... and he says he's "legally married" what does that mean?

I am happily engaged, but wanted to find out for a friend if he is available -- she really digs him. He has a tanline on his wedding finger that could to be from a ring.

I just thought it was an odd response to say, "I'm legally married."

2006-09-07 13:04:18 · 21 answers · asked by ndtaya 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 13:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jose A 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiance is really stressed out with emt classes and work so ferther more he gets irritable with me for no reason. so i try to stay out of his way when he studies and stuff but if i do that then im not being supportive so then i sit with him and act like im intrested in what he is doing but then he still gets irritable what should i do?

2006-09-07 13:03:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Anwser me with one of these reactions below:

1. Freak Out
2. Stare in shock
3. Give him your # like it is no big deal
4. Call up you friends and tell them
5. Tell him no and walk off

2006-09-07 13:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by Zac Efron's Future Wife 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I really like at school but sometimes I feel like he doesn't know I even exist. Please help me! I'm desperate!!!!

2006-09-07 13:00:54 · 14 answers · asked by KST<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont spend a lot a time with my family, because it just isnt in my life right now. But they have been checking up way too often these days. And i decide to share a little of my new life with them. But That turns into this avalanche of 'advice'. Its more like they are forcing me to do these things. But i know I wont because that isnt how I do things. They keep talking and talking and know nothing about my life and things in my new background. But they think they still have grounds to tell me exactly what to do. I know they are just trying to help. But it isnt stopping. I think this is the last time I'm sharing something specific about my life with them. How can I stop them this time? i just want to put the issue aside and pretend I didnt even talk to them. It was no where in their grounds to say these things to me. I have my independent life now and they are trying push themselves in to 'help me".

2006-09-07 13:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by fromnowandend 1 in Family

I will be 18 in a couple of months and I am sick of fighting with my parents and want to leave. My boyfriend wants me to go live with him, but I think it might be a mistake. I also don't have a lot of money.

2006-09-07 12:59:26 · 28 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Family

the doctor said it is possible because i still have everything eles, but i dont no how.

2006-09-07 12:59:11 · 3 answers · asked by trish p 2 in Family

2006-09-07 12:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by say wat? 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom hasn't told me to use deoderant and im 14...what do i do?

2006-09-07 12:58:17 · 16 answers · asked by kittybeargirl 1 in Family

2006-09-07 12:57:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Crush says he used to like me a lot but now he just likes me as a friend. We are playing " messenger". A lot of people are going from him to me saying stuff like " He says: bla bla bla" and I say " Tell him.. bla bla bla". And stuff like that. NOT mean stuff though. It's just that he wants to know if I like him. I really do. But if he knows he'll tell the whole school and then I'll be the laughing stock of the whole school. Hmm... What should I do?

I'm also wondering if he really likes me as a friend. I think it's more than that. Because he's always looking at me and acting like he wants to be more than just " friends" so... what should I do (again)?

Help me!

2006-09-07 12:57:36 · 21 answers · asked by Maggie L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there's this guy that lives in NY (I live in FL) we are crazy about eachother, I met him 3 years ago when he was visiting my cousin. I've been to NY 3 times to visit him since, and it seems like we're meant for eachother. We've never spent more than a week straight together though. All my family except for my mom and sister live in NY. We want to be together, he says he will "Never ever move to Florida" he hates it here. I don't want to live in NY, I grew up there, but Florida is my home now. He keeps asking me to consider moving. Should I even be entertaining the thought of moving across the country just to be with him, when who knows if it will work out? If it didn't work, I'd have my family to fall back on, but what 25 year old really wants to move in with Grandma? Is there anyone out there who has made a drastic change for a significant other and had it blow up in there face? Or it be the best thing in the world? Please give me some advice :)

2006-09-07 12:57:03 · 4 answers · asked by chrystallec 4 in Singles & Dating

My friends and me have always agreed that we shouldn't go out with black guys because most of them are players. But lately my friend Isabelle met this guy and he asked her out, and she said yes. This guy's black, and I don't want to sound racist but even though the guy seems nice, I know she will end up getting hurt. What should I do to break them up without Isabelle knowing that I did it?

2006-09-07 12:56:57 · 25 answers · asked by smartyetsweet 1 in Friends

I need some help.
My mother works and she NEVER cooks, do laundry, etc, she doesn't knows how to. My dad, he also works and he's the one who cooks, etc..
My mother doens't really cares about me & my brother, she thinks that money solves everything.
And she is having an affair with a HUGE (really fat) guy who is in Canada (We live in Venezuela). She says that she's the one that brings all the money to the house (which is not true) and that my father has a bad control (which is not true) of the money because she says that there should be more. And yes, there should be more and you know what happens to it? She has it in a bank account in the U.S.A.. Only she knows how much is in there. She uses that money to fly to Canada and to buy gifts to the guy and his family. I know al this and more, but I shouldn't know about it (and she doesn't knows I know), my brother knows too and my father too.

2006-09-07 12:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by let the speakers blow your mind 5 in Family

i know you are probably going to say girls but ARE there guys who don't want sex and just want to have a slow relationship with a girl?

2006-09-07 12:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

In 2/12 years, my boyfriend has never been able to make me orgasm during sex (just during oral). We've tried everything!! Any tips or suggestions? (I refuse to cheat or leave him!)

2006-09-07 12:56:12 · 9 answers · asked by chocolate-drop 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've liked this boy since my Freshman year. He is now a Senior. I am a Sophomore and I thought I was over him. I was so happy because the more I seen him, the more I fell for him. So the less I seen him the more I would get over him. So I barely see him this year. Because I thought I loved him it has kept me back from liking anyone else and going out with anyone. So I'm in the process of moving on. Then yesterday I went to gym and he's in my gym class. He sits right next to me. And I just want to tell him that I like him. But my friend thinks it's best if I dont tell him anything. Should I tell him, Im like tempted to tell him cause he sits right next to me. What should I do??? Tell him how I feel or not??

2006-09-07 12:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Other - Family & Relationships