My Crush says he used to like me a lot but now he just likes me as a friend. We are playing " messenger". A lot of people are going from him to me saying stuff like " He says: bla bla bla" and I say " Tell him.. bla bla bla". And stuff like that. NOT mean stuff though. It's just that he wants to know if I like him. I really do. But if he knows he'll tell the whole school and then I'll be the laughing stock of the whole school. Hmm... What should I do?
I'm also wondering if he really likes me as a friend. I think it's more than that. Because he's always looking at me and acting like he wants to be more than just " friends" so... what should I do (again)?
Help me!
2006-09-07 12:57:36 · 21 answers · asked by Maggie L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds like he's a manipulative turd. If he wants to know if you like him, he should ask YOU and YOU should do the same. I don't know how old you are, but this is not the way it's done in the real world.
2006-09-07 13:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he tells the whole school than hes not such a nice guy! But just like investigate keep your ears open for answers. And also if you have such a strong feeling for this just talk to him! Say something like "So.. I heard that you liked a girl our age.." just go on like that he'll get the hint and will have the confidence to make the first move. And if he doesn't then try it! lol. Just see how he reacts to your question.. Hope I've helped! Good luck!
God bless.
2006-09-07 20:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise - WAIT!!!
It does sound as if he likes you more than as a friend. But boys take longer then girls to relaise this.
My son took two years to relaise that the girl he'd been chatting to so long on MSN was the one he wanted. She bided her time and just acted friendly and cool.
They are now 18 and celebrating 18 month anniversary.
If it doesn't work out for you - don't worry. It's better to wait until you feel sure. And there are hundreds of tasty young men out there!!!
2006-09-07 20:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using words I think the Bla bla bla is probably confusing him, you obviously understand what you mean.
2006-09-07 20:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by predator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you believe me, sooner or later he will find a way and courage to tell you that. If he doesn't than he simply doesn't care a lot about what is going to happen between you two. When somebody really likes somebody there are no excuses!
You just have to wait and if you can't wait then go and talk to him.
2006-09-07 20:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Agne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would tell the whole school, he isnt worth it. If he can talk **** about you around the whole school, then forget it. Im sur ethat while you have been pining after this boi, there is another that is cuter and likes you. Thats what i would do.
If you reallywant him tell him he needs to stop beating around the bush and tell you what he thinks about you.
2006-09-07 20:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kara Joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont play messenger talk to him yourself.
Guys are ocnfusing so you really never know how he feels i went through somethign like this too and I still dont know how he feels, but if u want anything ask him yourself.
2006-09-07 20:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ɕɦɘȴƨ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you be the laughing stock of the school for liking a guy??
If you're worried about something like that, you shouldn't "like" anyone.
2006-09-07 19:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So...if you cant just go up to him yourself then have someone give him your #. I think you should do it though, he will be impressed. Then you 2 can talk on the phone & you can find out if the feelings are mutual.
2006-09-07 20:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you!but now he is just playin a little with you...Show that u like him and then try to find another cute and handsome guy to make your Crush jealous....it always works.. :)
2006-09-07 20:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Koalita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋