She talks to me then she ignores me the next day. She will hug almost any guy including me. She has a lot of guy friends that she talks to (not sure if she has a bf). I like her but is she worth it to go out with. Isn't there something that describes her? sl..
No I'm not jealous, I don't want ot f her, and I'm just wondering if this is normal.
2006-09-07 13:04:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually I mean she wouldn't talk to me she didn't ignore me.
2006-09-07 13:11:29 · update #1
She's a piece of work, that's for sure.
2006-09-07 14:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she sounds cool!
I also think you should give her a chance - if she doesn't already have a boyfriend.
The fact that she gets along with guys in general is great and she sounds like the type of girl a guy could have a lot of fun wit!!!!
(In regards to her talking to you one day and ignoring you the next - i think she can sense your uneasiness about the fact that she is so friendly wit other guys and she probably thinks your judging her. If you think she is a sl... then she can probably sense it and that would make someone like me wanna ignore you too.)
If you are gonna give her a chance and actually do go out with her, then you need to wipe your mind clean of any pre judgements and don't allow it to be in the back of your mind that she could cheat or whateva. This is what would ultimately ruin the relationship. If she's a great girl and fun to be around, don't worry about what anyone else thinks or says and just go get her! Before someone else does!
2006-09-07 20:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is she.... are you talking about a girl at school or a 40 year old.... you're too vague... but...
talking to you & then ignoring you so extremely does sound like there is probably some emotional issues involved... maybe she likes you..? But since you dont care & are just curious it really doesnt matter too much, eh? ;)
Lets presume you are talking about a younger girl here...
What is your gut instinct.... is she hugging all these guys to make you jealous/ notice her... or maybe she just likes a lot of reassurance from guys... or maybe that's just how all her social group interact...?
If you feel theres some motivation to incite jealousy underneath... probably there is...but it could be that she likes you & is trying to get you to notice!
If you are still thinking about her as a girlfriend... id take it slow, its good you dont feel jealous... keep it that way... you dont want that kind of crap to deal with.... just see how it goes... you'll know if she has the qualities you want in a girlfriend after a while of hanging around with her.
If you think she's maybe doing it to get your attention... try changing the scenaio - how is she when its just you two or she with the other girls... mayne she'll drop her defenses a bit if she feels she has the attention she's after?
BUT... if we are talking about an adult woman.... no, its not a normal way for her to behave - forget it!
2006-09-07 20:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring you is a little mean. You may be getting yourself into a drama queen mess. Or maybe she heard something really offensive about you. But as far as hugging any guy that's normal. Most girls I know including myself, hug ALL of their friends male or female. You haven't given enough to make me think that she's a sl.. though. And yes, don't worry, it's normal.
2006-09-07 20:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she likes you, too, but is trying to make you jealous. Girls do that, you know, trying to appeal to your competitive side. It makes some girls feel great to have a guy just jealous enough to go after what he wants (i.e. her). Test her by asking her out while on your date ask her what is up with all her guy-friendliness. Bottom line-she's playing a game and the prize is you. Go for it first and if she outright turns you down then you should move on and forget her. I can't tell you how many times I've let another guy flirt with me in the presence of Mr. Wonderful because I know for a fact that guys want women that other men think are pretty because it makes them a prize to be won.
2006-09-07 20:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can be very normal. She is a people person and possibly a flirt. And if she ever settles down will prob need to be with someone like herself. If you are questioning her personality I would think it just means that your are different, And though that alone does not mean you couldn't work out if you dated. Just may mean that their could be better matches for you both. Or that maybe since you are different and if you accepted oneanothers difference that you could be excellent friends.
2006-09-07 20:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jess777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesn't want a relationship now. just be her friend with no pressure. you never know, maybe someday it will be more.
2006-09-07 20:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dear she sound like a flirt,and you could get hurt.yes it does rhyme.
2006-09-07 20:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be a flirt.
2006-09-07 20:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by I'm alive .. still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-09-07 20:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋