He is confusing... Like he calls me every day and he tells me that he wants to see me all the time and that he misses me... But we have a past... I don't know if I can trust him or not he didn't cheat on me or anything cause we were never really together!! Maybe I have trust issues and should just let it go but... Sometimes there is just nothing to say on the phone and it is like akward silence!!!! But He is the kind where he is like really closed and not opened with anybody... He tells me that he wants to open to me though and He does I just am afraid of him I guess.... He might have the reputation from other people of being a player... He gives me no reason to doubt him so what should I do????
2006-09-07 13:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your that unsure about him you don't need him move on.If you've already had a past with him you know what he's like already don't even stress yourself over this move on if it's not worth it.
2006-09-07 13:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, what you really need to do is trust your heart. If there are any doubts, then you probably shouldn't pursue a relationship with him. If he was truly the one for you, you wouldn't have any reservations about it. There's no reason that you can't remain friends however, and see if maybe down the road a bit things couldn't work out. Good luck, hon, and God Bless!
2006-09-07 20:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, go ahead and trust him once again. Let the past go and go on with a "like new" relationship. In case he is a player you will get to know in less than what you think. Are you in love, go for it but carefully do not fall too in love in case he just want a piece of you... Love, be free and let yourself be love, it is something that we all have to go through to learn and get experience. Like me, I'm "The Encouraging/Experience Voice" who have learn from every relationship and still get hurt.
2006-09-07 20:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by AnieFTM40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT ALL MEN ARE THE SAME. DO WHAT YOUR HEART TELLS YOU, WHAT DOES HE DO WHEN THE BOTH OF YOU ARE IN PUBLIC TOGETHER? IF HE ACTS ON THE PHONE, THEN DOESN'T SPEAK TO YOU ARE ACT LIKE HE DOESNT KNOW YOU IN PUBLIC THEN DONT EVEN BOTHER. BUT IF HE OPENS UP TO YOU AND HE DOESNT TO ANYONE ELSE, THEN MAYBE HE REALLY DOES LOVE AND MISS YOU LIKE HE SAIS HE DOES. BUT DONT LET IT RUIN SOMETHING GOOD BECAUSE YOU HAVE TRUST ISSUES. DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT.
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-07 20:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going with your gut instinct is the safest way to go. Women who listen to their natural intuition almost always make the right decision. We were born with it for a reason.
2006-09-07 20:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one thing to do follow your heart listen to whatever it is trying to tell you and then do what you have to do. It's all you can do at this point. Good luck.
2006-09-07 20:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?
Thank god there is a character limit, or we have to read even more of this pathetic tale.
2006-09-07 20:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't let what other people think of him influence ur feelings towards him. Just follow ur heart.
2006-09-07 20:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Daddy's Good Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to see or make any type of relation ship then tel that guy if he calls u again u ll call da cops
2006-09-07 20:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well give him a chance? human beings makes mistake
2006-09-07 20:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋