we met someone on the computer and she sent us some pictures of herself and my husband really likes this girl. everytime he thinks of her or sees a picture of her he gets a hard on but for some reason i don't get jealous why is that i wonder.
2006-09-07 13:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that's because you know who you are and what you want. so you go girl, not everyone is like that in fact jealousy sometimes will kill the best relationship.
2006-09-07 13:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my guess would be that you subconsciously know that her sending a picture is pretty much harmless...unless she lives with a reasonable driving distance...then you might worry.
Also I would wager that the pic is "superhot" hence the boners. I bet a majority of the pics that get sent out over the internet are fakes anyway....you know the saying. "i'm not a doctor but i play one on the internet" ? Anyone can be a babe online, lol
2006-09-07 20:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you didn't really think about what would actually happen if your husband met her in person and you lost him. We sometimes tend to take things for granted until we loose them.
Or, maybe you realize that she is not a threat.
Though, if i were you i wouldn't let this go any further. Even better make it stop for good. You might be surprised how difficult it could be for him to give her up.
2006-09-07 20:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Agne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its that u really arent in love with your husband like u thought u were or maybe ur instincts r telling u that he has no chance with her at all and that he wouldnt cheat on u.
2006-09-07 20:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because shes on the computer, and is isnt likely that he will consumate this fascination for this woman
2006-09-07 20:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by fifs_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because are are stong together or maybe you are doing the same thing with other men-- just a thought
2006-09-07 20:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe are u a swinger and dont realize it yet
2006-09-07 20:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not insecure. Congratulations! :)
I need to learn that trick :(
2006-09-07 20:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of two things....
one you are securre in your marrage
or
you just don't care!
I am hoping its the first one....
2006-09-07 20:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirlsliketoride2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is all yours and no one else can have him.
2006-09-07 20:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋