In 2/12 years, my boyfriend has never been able to make me orgasm during sex (just during oral). We've tried everything!! Any tips or suggestions? (I refuse to cheat or leave him!)
2006-09-07 12:56:12 · 9 answers · asked by chocolate-drop 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some women just are unable to have an orgasm during regular intercourse...you should be counting your blessings that you can during oral.
What I have found that works though (and the only thing) is when you are on top and his legs are closed together. It tends to hit the right spot. Hopefully that will help.
And also...that is no reason to cheat or leave him so Amen to that comment! Good luck.
2006-09-07 13:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I you are happy and love him,you do not need to cheat him.Try to play first (touching and kissing all your body,from head to feet),after he did that,he need to do oral to you,kissing the clitoris(using softly his tongue),and then after you feel really hot,on,do on the top,and after do the butterfly;putting one or 2 pillows under your buttocks.Good luck.
2006-09-07 20:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going on top because it stimulates the clit, or look up postitions that stimulate the clit for an orgasm. Oh and have you tried foreplay?
2006-09-07 19:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women can't achieve orgasm during intercourse. Has he tried just playing with your clit?
2006-09-07 20:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting a book on different sexual positions.At least you will learn some new moves.Just try relaxing also.Don,t put so much pressure on yourself.Hang in there.
2006-09-07 20:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you reach down there and use your hand during sex? I don't see why it wouldn't work and i'll bet it would look and feel totally hot...
2006-09-07 19:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it with you on top and with him taking mental notes of the type of contact that does it for you.
2006-09-07 19:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on top! It works!
2006-09-07 20:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're not really in love but only you know that
2006-09-07 19:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋