Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

there is this friend of mine... she is whiny and arrogant for no good reason.... so i simply hate her.... i haven't called her in a long time but she calls me just about time when i begin to think that i have got rid of her... i even talk rudely to her but she just wouldn.t let go.... she has instulted me on numerous instances and i never answered back but then i ran out of patience and started treating her likewise but she can't digest the fact that i have changed because of her sickening attitude and now dares to tell me "you know what... you have changed". Is there a remotest chance that i am wrong about my behaviour towards her?

2006-09-01 09:07:56 · 9 answers · asked by skepty 3 in Friends

Tell me about someone you know who you can't stand, drives you nuts, or annoys the hell out of you and describe what it is about them or what they do to piss you off or annoy you. It can be anyone. I'll pick the best story. Have fun!

2006-09-01 09:07:15 · 12 answers · asked by Mandy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 09:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is in a class with one of my friends and wrote a note to her sayin that he likes me but i don't turn him on like her, that he likes her butt and boobs. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh what should i do?????????/

2006-09-01 09:07:12 · 35 answers · asked by maerbear2 1 in Singles & Dating

If two people(man and woman) meet each other but do not get together right away and either of the two go on to be with someone else, as in dating relations, do you think that the two original people could ever get back together? I mean, it kind of sounds unethical doesn't it?

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2006-09-01 09:07:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm just having troubles trying to figure out how to do it and where....

2006-09-01 09:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Brittany's man 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend who I have lived with for a while says that she needs space and I have moved into my dad's house.. I love being with her and I am willing and trying to do whatever it takes make it work out between us, but she wants to spend alot of time together still which would be good, but it reaggrivates the wound in a way.. I enjoy being with her too much to just leave and go home, or split ways all the time.. I told her that if we are going to be on a break then I want it to be a total break. We dont talk or see each other, and when she is ready I will come back. She knows that I am not going to do anything behind her back, and knows that it is her thing to sort out.. It is simply my job to help her have space to think.. Is it selfish of me to not want any time together during the break? She knows that I just get hurt again having to leave after expierinceing what we already had.. I just miss it to much when I am reminded of it..

2006-09-01 09:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 09:06:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Going on a road trip with a guy you met online a week ago. Dumb as hel l or adventurous?

2006-09-01 09:06:18 · 5 answers · asked by LadyBug 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 09:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy B 1 in Friends

If you wear a long or short dress to a party, like wedding... do you usually wear pantyhose with open toes high heal shoes? Does it look bad if you wear with it... Cos you usually wear pantyhose with close toes heal shoes right..... I'm the kind of lady not too good for dress up on a party. And there will be a wedding need to go in 2 months. Please help! And i normally wear glasses, I'll be bridesmaid that day, should i get contact lenes... Does it worth it??

2006-09-01 09:03:21 · 25 answers · asked by fakeid412 2 in Weddings

2006-09-01 09:03:21 · 6 answers · asked by war30214602006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 24 year old son is in a correctional facility and he tells me some horror stories. He's no angel, I know, but to risk injury/death? Are there any sites out there where parents of incarcerated children can chat with each other? Give each other moral support? Thanks for any help you can give.

2006-09-01 09:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Lynnieb 1 in Family

I have two friends and they claim they are my friends- but they spread rumors about me, and they hurt my feelings- what should I say to them? I want to stop being friends with them.

2006-09-01 09:01:35 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my verbally abusive husband for 8 years. We love eachother but he has a very verbally abusive mouth & temper. I have been going to counseling but he doesn't think he needs it. He doesn't hit me but he says very mean things about me when he's mad. We have 2 children together and he'll do this even in front of them. He's a great guy otherwise. I just wish tat he could change. We were seperated for 2 months and decided to give it another try. He's been back for 2 weeks and has not slept in the bed with me, he's on the couch. Also, his clothes are still in his truck. He's not being mean, just distant. Also, he stayed over his parents house during this and they hate me and feed him a bunch of garbage that I think has him confused. He needs to put us first but I think their opinions matter to him also. Mind you we are in our early 30's. I'm just wondering why he came back if he's going to be so distant. Did I make the right choice? What can I do to make things right?

2006-09-01 09:01:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After 6 months, we finally broke up. I wanted it to be amicable break up, but as usual guys are just jerks! I was and still is ready to just walk away and prevent future hurt and pain. But lo and behold 2 days later he gets hurt on the job and is hospitalized. He will be in there for at least 2 weeks and will be immobile for another 2 weeks.

I feel so torn in seeing someone I care about get hurt, but to what extent can I assist. I am no longer his girlfriend. I have no ties or allegiance to him anymore. But I don't want to turn my back on him either. I think it would be cruel for me to leave him high and dry. Please advise???

2006-09-01 09:00:40 · 15 answers · asked by EmCee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 09:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with a guy nearly 4 years ago. at the time i was proper in love with him even tho my friends told me what he was like.
we split up because he had got engaged and bought a house with a girl who he got pregant while he was with me.
this hurt me but i moved on and got a new fella who im still with but now my ex dumped the girl 2 weeks before the wedding (his kid is nearly 4) and he keeps asking me out.

he wont get the hint i am alot happier with my current boyfriend since he doesnt use me. what can i do?

my current boyfriend doesnt exactly look like a guy that my ex would be afaid of if he threatened him.

2006-09-01 09:00:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love him, i do, but i dont know if im in love. he also is very bad at communicating, i ask him something deep or i want to talk about something important, or I'll have a problem with something, and he gets mad and he wont talk about it. he really doestn talk much at all.
he also thinks im cheating on him, he is very paranoid any g/f he had would cheat on him. he has very low self esteem (even though he has no reason to.)

what do you think???

2006-09-01 09:00:04 · 17 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is so in the dumps. He just lost his job and our marriage is being restored after infedility (his, not mine). I want to give him a special birthday but we are struggling financially....and due to the recent infedelity, sexually too. Any ideas to let him know I love and appreciate him without spending too much money or jumping in the sak.

2006-09-01 08:58:48 · 14 answers · asked by mauihillside 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having surgery, In the past my sister has just invited herself into the hospital rooms when she visits ppl; the Drs allows because she's family or acts concerned and like she belongs. When I'm distressed and coming around I will not get comfort from her pressence. How do I discreetly tell her stay in the waiting room till I'm moved to regular room? There is always a Dr or nurse that doesn't 'know' so that is not an option. She always finds a way to get to the center of activity in these types of situations. What to do/say? Any constructive words I could use to kindly say?

2006-09-01 08:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by Ann 3 in Family

MALE OR FEMALE.....once a cheat always a cheat????

2006-09-01 08:57:47 · 42 answers · asked by crazyhustler 1 in Singles & Dating

Well the thing is...umm...My weenie is soo small that the girl that pierced me hardly had enough skin to work with...so now it just looks like someone pinched my skin and pushed a stud through...what should I do??? You cant even tell i havea weenie anymore...im soo sad...my girlfriend (the pron star) is gonna be soo disappointed with me...please help

2006-09-01 08:56:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 08:56:28 · 4 answers · asked by mikesw2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 08:55:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the thing ... I'm 16 ... and in my whole life i had 1 girlfriend!!!

Is something wrong with me??Why don't girls like me??
lately i realy like this one girl, I know she likes me ... (her besfriend is my bestfriend, u know how it goes) I have tries talking to her, givin her hints, I asked her if she wants to go stedy and she went all crazy on me ... why? I'm a realy nice guy ask any1...
What's wrong with me!!!

2006-09-01 08:54:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hits her,and now i want to kill him what to do?

2006-09-01 08:53:38 · 53 answers · asked by Dude 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious,that's all! :P

2006-09-01 08:53:32 · 34 answers · asked by dinca eliza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do people have to have sex with 10 different people before finding the perfect match? isn't this kind of behaviour simply promiscuous?? aren't platonic relationships a better parameter for fining the true love...atleast it does not merely conentrate on the sexual aspect of a relationship.

2006-09-01 08:53:25 · 23 answers · asked by skepty 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 08:52:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating