My girlfriend who I have lived with for a while says that she needs space and I have moved into my dad's house.. I love being with her and I am willing and trying to do whatever it takes make it work out between us, but she wants to spend alot of time together still which would be good, but it reaggrivates the wound in a way.. I enjoy being with her too much to just leave and go home, or split ways all the time.. I told her that if we are going to be on a break then I want it to be a total break. We dont talk or see each other, and when she is ready I will come back. She knows that I am not going to do anything behind her back, and knows that it is her thing to sort out.. It is simply my job to help her have space to think.. Is it selfish of me to not want any time together during the break? She knows that I just get hurt again having to leave after expierinceing what we already had.. I just miss it to much when I am reminded of it..
2006-09-01 09:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy Ryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really wants a break, ya'll would not be hangin out so much!!!! Don't let that chick fool you. I'm sorry to say, but whenever someone said break (even when it was me) it was because they (me) were interested in some else....I know living together can take a toll on the relationship and you need breathers, but thats what you have your friend's for, to go out with them to release some of that tension of being together all the time. Truth be told, she is just keeping a leash on you until she's finished doing whatever.
2006-09-01 09:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone says they need a break it is a break up. They are telling you they are sick of you or they just don't have the same feelings anymore and want to see what's out there.
You did the right thing. Don't be a booty call; she can't have her cake and eat it too. She's either in or out.
2006-09-01 16:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sir, are a p-u-s-s-y!
Don't tie your self down now - you are too young.
Move out and get your freedom
what, does she have the only vagina in the world
1. Bang her
2. Leave her
3. Move on to the next chick
4. Get in her panties
5. Repeat steps 1 - 4
2006-09-01 16:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but there is no need to "have your own space" if your in a commeted relationship unless you meet somebody else.
2006-09-01 16:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the things the things that you told us, if someone love than they cant be selfish, if they were selfish than they couldn't give love to someone. its matter of time or maybe she loves someone else
2006-09-01 16:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unfair of you. if she says she needs space then give her total space. she cant have everything on her own terms.
2006-09-01 16:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by LadyBug 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you´re right. WTF is a break for anyway, a prelude to a breakup? I´ve never done this with a woman.....it´s either on or off. Upon reflection, it would appear you are being toyed with bro....
2006-09-01 16:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tristansdad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up man...give her time and yourself time too. Think about what you will do in the future.
2006-09-01 16:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HER THINK THAT YOU ARE OK WITH IT PLAY HARD TO GET.PUT THE SPARK BACK INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP.GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND HAVE FUN WITH OUT HER. ACT LIKE YOUR OK WITH THIS.SHE WILL COME BACK
2006-09-01 16:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋