Here is the thing ... I'm 16 ... and in my whole life i had 1 girlfriend!!!
Is something wrong with me??Why don't girls like me??
lately i realy like this one girl, I know she likes me ... (her besfriend is my bestfriend, u know how it goes) I have tries talking to her, givin her hints, I asked her if she wants to go stedy and she went all crazy on me ... why? I'm a realy nice guy ask any1...
What's wrong with me!!!
2006-09-01 08:54:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing's wrong with you!!! Kids kill me trippin over dating.....it's not that big of a deal. Have fun, chill, enjoy your adolescence and college years before you enter the real world....and if she really likes you, maybe she doesn't wanna hook up because you're her best friend’s best friend....you walking on dangerous grounds and if things go bad between you too, someone will end up without a friend.......
2006-09-01 09:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.... calm down. YOU'RE sixteen dude. And there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with your flow.
It's actually a good thing you haven't shared yourself around like a appetizer platter at a party. Because then you'll become like EVERYBODY else... Fast and too Free and used up before you even hit 21.
Be you...always. Right now it seems weird, but you'll need much more time to grow into yourself. These females will see you in a few years or so and hit themselves in the head when they see how cool and confident and handsome you are and continue to be. Just Chill...
Also, you need to remember that the "young" ladies you deal with are also growing up and are still very young and immature in their heads (don't let their bodies fool you)... So, don't trip when you see that they are not responding to your flow.
It will all come together as you grow... Don't rush the process... because before you know it you'll be married with a beautiful wife (who loves and adores you) by your side and children on the way.... and you'll look back and laugh that you even felt this way when you were younger..... TRUST!
2006-09-01 16:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16. How many girlfriends do you think you need by 16?
You need to focus on getting a good education, participate in some other activity...a sport, if you like them, or some exercise if you don't....and stop worrying about girls. There are plenty of them out there, and you're ONLY 16. It isn't like you're going to find the girl you'll spend your whole life with at this age...chances are against it.
You'll find girls will like you more if you're self-confident, fit and aren't really needy.
2006-09-01 15:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you and I'm sure you are a great guy. Sometimes, even though we may like someone and they act as if they like us back well that may not be the case. Or she could be playing hard to get. Give her some space and see what happens. You might find out that she really wants to go steady after all. Bless you and I hope all works out for you.
2006-09-01 15:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Snele,
don't worry about how many girlfriends you have,, my husband had never had a girlfriend until he was 21. He is a very smart man that is tall, dark hair and very handsome, and we have been happily married for over 26 years. So don't think there is anything wrong with you,, you just havent met the girl that responds to you yet . It will happen.
2006-09-01 15:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by chunkydunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong u know how to keep a relationship with one gilr and no guy in america can do that.
Don't get with another girl coz girls see that ur so kind and nice and in love with an other girl they don't want u heart broken and they know u don't deserve it.
thats why they don't bother...
it's better to be with one then a whore that uses u like waste.
2006-09-01 16:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Your only 16... You have the next 70 years to get gf's. Loosen up... When I was 16 I had only had 1 bf too....
2006-09-01 15:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had a boyfriend and I'm 16 too.
Nothing is prolly wrong with you. Acted like you don't want her the she might get jealous and want you. Or find another girl to like and take it slow.
hope it helped
2006-09-01 16:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by D'reux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing wrong with you and I think that you had just 1 girlfriend because your shy. And about the girl you said she could be shy or she didn't have any boyfriends yet.
2006-09-01 16:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Eri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a nice guy. Try the bad boy image, girls seem to like bad boys over the Nice guys....
2006-09-01 15:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Pilot 202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋