i went out with a guy nearly 4 years ago. at the time i was proper in love with him even tho my friends told me what he was like.
we split up because he had got engaged and bought a house with a girl who he got pregant while he was with me.
this hurt me but i moved on and got a new fella who im still with but now my ex dumped the girl 2 weeks before the wedding (his kid is nearly 4) and he keeps asking me out.
he wont get the hint i am alot happier with my current boyfriend since he doesnt use me. what can i do?
my current boyfriend doesnt exactly look like a guy that my ex would be afaid of if he threatened him.
2006-09-01 09:00:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you are trying for a baby with your new guy. He will understand the door is closed for him and move on.
2006-09-01 09:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex that he's a loser and that your very much in love with a man an actual man something that he never was and never will be. And just ignore him. When you see him out walk the other way. If he comes to your house slam your door in his face. If he calls you don't answer the phone. Get a restraining order.
2006-09-01 09:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by metal_punk_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining Order.
2006-09-01 09:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by gel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
drop kick thisclown through thefield goal post of life. Let this clow nhave it with both barrels WHY are you even talking to this jerk ? that is the question that needs to be addressed here .
This clown is dating you , has an affair with another female .Knockes her up drops you , buys a home and move her and he into it.Has the lil one then drops her BEfore they tie the knot.And you ask how od I let him know I am not interested? WTF woman blast his butt FIRMLY!
if ever there was a time for you to get ticked off and wail on someone NOW IS THE TIME !
Dont hit him but verbally assualt hi mso he will never speak to hi magain.Geez I remember I todl a female I just wanted ot be friends with her after dating her for 4 months and she smacked me and told me off in like 3 different languages.
I wish I knew ya back then so I can tel lyou hey Can we be friends ? LOL
I truel yhope you just tel lthis loser to grow up and become responsible for his action and stop playing games.Someone needs to ! If you are happy and love the guy you are with great but dont let that clown back in your life he will sure get bored and drop you again.Sounds like he just dont get life at all.
2006-09-01 09:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1.) Your ex shouldn't be your current bf's problem...it's your past.
#2.) Tell your ex in very certain terms that you are not interested in even talking, speaking walking on the same street as him. Ask him if he really thinks you'de consider him after getting a girl pregnant and dumping you....then call him the fuking a-hole that he is laugh in his face...tell him he has the smallest weiner of all the guys you've ever dated and suggest he kill himself. Get your point across.
2006-09-01 09:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a bastard. Tell him he is harrassing you, and if it doesnt stop you will get a restraining order.
Do you not know anyone he would be afraid of? Get him to have a word (two people are better) with him. If he still persists, get that restraining order.
2006-09-01 09:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to this situation is simply don't have contact with him. If he calls hang up, if he emails don't answer, if he comes by don't let him in, if he walks up to you on the street don't say a word to him. Eventually he will get the hint and go away. They key is to show no reaction or give him any openings.
2006-09-01 09:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by rkrell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best thing here is to make sure that you are safe with your current boyfriend. Have him protect you if he is truly in love with you, he will.
Ignore the Bad boy that was in your life. Remember, they only have pity parties because they want to bring everyone else down to their own level of ignorance and stupidity. They can only play one hat in life, when life requires that we play many at any given time. Bad boys are such losers!
2006-09-01 09:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell him to go away. If that doesn't work get a restraining order. It may be the only way you can get through to this jerk.
2006-09-01 09:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by LJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and if the ex does somehow get a hold of you hang up on him and call the cops
2006-09-01 09:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋