A friend of mine has recently been left by her partner of two years. He said that he no longer loved her and left, on I feel, the implication that he was doing the right and noble thing rather than causing any more pain than necessary. This has left her very confused/hurt and wishing that he hadn't left, however, the man and the relationship she mourns only exist in her head. She is unaware that he cheated on her numerous times, had not loved her for quite some time, and thusly to the extent that he was a bad partner. If she were to discover the truth about her ex it would certainly hurt her greatly, but she would at least be aware of it and it could allow her to hate him and possibly achieve some form of closure at a sooner date. Or alternatively she could never have to suffer this knowledge now the relationship has ended and continue to look back at it with happier, albeit less than accurate, memories.
2006-09-01
23:30:18
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