Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

My ex boyfriend and I have remained really close friends with benefits after he broke up with me when I moved away to college last year (he couldn't handle long distance). He calls me all the time to see how I am doing and such and when we get together we cant help but get sexually (We both still love each other SO much). He is been treating me really player-like lately..like when I am in town he says he is busy...doesn't call to say bye etc. He just called me tonight to say hi and see how i am. I am sick of this game and its holding me back from dating others. I still love him so much but don't know if I should just ignore him or call him and make him feel guilty for how he treated me when I was in town. I want him to hurt...b/c he made me hurt. What would be the best option? Im just scared to ignore b/c i really dont want to lose him...i love him but want to make him realize how h

2006-09-01 20:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend does his own things, when we go to the park- he'll act like I'm not there and he'll go do his own thing. He'll go out and not even ask me to come along- but his friends. He just tells me that it's late, or they're going to do something stupid, but if they are why is he going? Why can he do that and I can't tag along? Am I a bad girlfriend for thinking this? Also- when we go somewhere and there are girls looking at him, he'll always glance at them whether or not I'm there. It makes me feel like I'm not worth looking at, that's why he doesn't bother. Also- when he promises that we'll do something together- he'll blow me off to go do something with his friends. I just sit there and cry. And he won't ask why I was, he'll just get mad and say that I'm selfish. Or sometimes when I tell him to come walk with me- he'll nodd, but he doesn't even come, or ask me where I was. Am I a bad girlfriend for thinking that he's neglecting me? Am I a bad girlfriend for asking for more?

2006-09-01 20:41:03 · 16 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by anwen_chel 1 in Singles & Dating

Do squats in the gym. Im seeing more and more women walking around with chicken legs, im worried. Just make sure to keep the waist and stomach flat and definitly dont develop cankles.

2006-09-01 20:40:32 · 5 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:39:01 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Nerai 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 20:38:42 · 2 answers · asked by j t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by Rock N' Roll Junkie 5 in Singles & Dating

I am not interested in internet dating websites/ internet matchmaking websites.

2006-09-01 20:36:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by like this 1 in Singles & Dating

Personally, I am forty, one baby boy and a fiancex. I have learned that I am visible to women in their twenties and those who know me think I am around thirty. So, do you think 40 is old?. If so, then how old are you?

2006-09-01 20:33:07 · 19 answers · asked by brad 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:31:33 · 33 answers · asked by falzalnz 6 in Marriage & Divorce

it was rumored that I had a boyfriend, but it's not true i love him too much

2006-09-01 20:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by coolgurl17 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:28:28 · 2 answers · asked by naresh d 2 in Friends

2006-09-01 20:26:13 · 7 answers · asked by mistakeman 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a Real Estate Agent and today Saturday I turn 20.I don't have any idea what to do.What should I do being a young and cool business guy or should I say MAN. If I can get any ideas SUPER Crazy ones or just whatever I would give you a five...lol

2006-09-01 20:25:39 · 29 answers · asked by The O.C Real Estate Agent 2 in Family

love is a divine feeling. it makes u feel complete and at peace, but what if someday you realise, that somebody was loving you out of certain reasons? we love people for certain reasons,,may be. but what if those reasons end.
is it not possible to love somebody out of nothing, for no reasons at all?
is love not like a business? we give something and then expect something, often we expect the person to behave like us, to our expectations?
why does that heppen?

2006-09-01 20:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by Ritu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do you women insist on wearing so much make-up? What ever happend to "natural beauty"? I mean, you don't see guys go out and getting all dollied up to impress someone. All that black crap around your eyes and some put so much on that it makes them look like a clown. And if you're going to make out, it rubs of on the guy.

2006-09-01 20:22:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:21:52 · 5 answers · asked by won l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:20:58 · 6 answers · asked by yowww kelly clarkson 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im bored.

2006-09-01 20:20:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it has to do with kissing at school and getting caught. but what does it stand for?

2006-09-01 20:18:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, well tomorrow I'm going to the eye doctor to start training for my contacts. You know, how to put them on and off, etc. For one thing, I just switched eye doctor, so I still don't feel comfortable with him. And well, this is a big step in my life, because I have worn glasses in since the fourth grade (now im in the 11th grade)...so its really important for me...I just..I guess what I'm worried is I wont do it correctly or that maybe there will be awkward moment with my doctor. I don't know....I just hope this contact thing is easy on me. I wanna learn quick and get to the point where I'm used to them.
If you have worn or wear glasses or contacts....any advice?
Thanks.

2006-09-01 20:18:41 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Family

I have many things that I want to talk to my b/f about, but i find myself getting scared of what he will say or think. How can I overcome this?

2006-09-01 20:17:53 · 21 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:17:29 · 2 answers · asked by m.sundar r 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by miguelitabonita 4 in Singles & Dating

Husband is an alcoholic. I have heart problems and depression. I have not worked in four years. He is stingy and makes good money, but will not put any in an account for me or give me cash. We built a home on land my mother gave us and we probably have about 1/3 equity of what it is worth. He makes payments and says he will not move out and that he will not let me have the house. If this happens, I do not even know where to start without money of my own to speak of, unless I sell households goods, etc. and maybe I will just to hire an attorney. Please pray that whatever happens will be for the best. Thanks. I really do not want to sell the house, we built to be close to my mother as she is aging.

2006-09-01 20:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by pepper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 20:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, So i'm the 20 year old female, I have this friend that is 38. I've known him for a while, and we went out a couple times with other people, but tonight we went on a "date". He took me out to dinner, it was really nice and he was a gentlemen. I like older men, because i've had bad expeiriences with younger men (i'm a single mom to a 10 month old lil girl) So anyways, whatcha think?

2006-09-01 20:12:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 20:11:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

your head. Would you like another cup of coffee

2006-09-01 20:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating