love is a divine feeling. it makes u feel complete and at peace, but what if someday you realise, that somebody was loving you out of certain reasons? we love people for certain reasons,,may be. but what if those reasons end.
is it not possible to love somebody out of nothing, for no reasons at all?
is love not like a business? we give something and then expect something, often we expect the person to behave like us, to our expectations?
why does that heppen?
2006-09-01 20:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by Ritu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love someone because of "what they can do for you" then it`s NOT love. LOVE is unconditional and cannot be controlled! You can actually HATE the way someone behaves,and STILL love them! You can HATE "Everything" about a person and STILL Love Them! I Know! And It`s Screwed Me Up TOTALLY!!!!! P.S. You need to re-enroll in spelling class! Heppen! Please, tell me you`re not white! You can spell expectations,BUT you can`t spell happen!!
2006-09-01 20:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Snowdog74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does and can exist forever. It only seems foreign because the whole idea of love existing forever may sound far fetched in the closed minds of people. The unfortunate thing is that falling in love is so easy, it's air born, anybody can fall in love. Falling in love is implicit, staying there is the real challenge! The reason why many people are not able to stay in love is because the infatuation they were once feeling dies. And there is no love with out infatuation because you can not have love without out it. It's what keeps the fire burning, it's what keeps the butterflies flying around in your stomach. Love all by it self is not enough, it needs infatuation in order to survive because it's simpily not enough. Love is caring, nuturing, feeling the impulse to care for someone as deeply as you care for your self if not more. Infatuation is what brings, playfulness, indulgence, passion, sensuality and all that other good stuff that keeps you feeling high from the very scent of the person, keeps you feeling all giddy and gentle inside. So when You hear people say that love does not exist forever it's because the infatution is gone meaning they fell out of love. Love is a cycle, it's born, it live and has the potential to die. Love itself is beautiful, it's people who currupt it and make it painful! Love does exist it's just that everyone has seems to have exhausted the possibility!
-Love is forever....lust is temporary.
-Candy
2006-09-02 05:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe love is an absolute and eternal if it is perfect. if someonen is "loving you out of certain reasons." it isn't neccisarily love. i think that we become interested in someone for "reasons" like attractiveness or other things but we fall in love with "them". love isn't based on expectation. we have expectations as people but love gives without them. real love isn't just an emotion it is a commitment. a parent can love a child with devotion but still feel anger, and disappointment but want to give their all just the same.
you can feel incomplete and still love(painfull, but true). the incompleteness is from the expectations we have of others and the desire to be loved in return. we can love someone in a relationship and know that they can never be with us. they just don't fit or love us back. in that case you need to let them go. you deserve to be loved.
people can have unrealistic expectations of each other in which case we need to take a look at who we all really are. i think this is what they mean that we have to know how to love ourselves, so that we don't end up in some abusive or unhealthy relationship and/or to become aware that we don't love someone despite their faults, which is what i believe real love is.
healthy love in a relationship goes both ways and accepts faults. it allows you to be who you really are and to give back. it makes you want to grow and improve yourself so you can give your love even more. in this way love can grow over time and bring you closer.
2006-09-02 04:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by nathan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ritu
as an astrologer only, I can tell you that love is represented by Venus. Romantic love will have a strong Neptune influence and Mars will add sexual attraction. If you do not have these in your Birthchart, but do have them in a progressed chart, the aspects will change and disappear.
2006-09-02 03:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is for ever, but you have to fight and to have God on your side!
fake love is for a moment or two...two years or three...
2006-09-02 03:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope we dont expect anything.
2006-09-02 03:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by supraman126 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋