Where are you coming from? What's your purpose? Most of all what are your goals for a relationship?
2006-09-01 23:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by Love is the principle thing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loving my friends and family makles me tick. It keeps me going, and gets me out of bed every day. They give me such joy, and I love to help and support them, and spend time with them. Making them happy makes me happy.
Curiosity gets me out of bed everyday. There is so much to learn, to know, to understand.
Understanding wears away barriers, and brings us closer together.
Where am I coming from? A long, strange road, with many detours and side-trips, that has taught me much. I have learned about people, and mistakes, and forgiveness, and keeping on when one wants to give up. It isn't over until one quits.
I have learned that what other people think doesn't really matter, as long as one is true to oneself. There will always be people who criticize. There will always be people who approve. The vast majority of people simply will not care. One has to answer to oneself.
I have learned that things and "stuff" won't make me happy. People, love, and knowledge make me happy. Loving and being loved make me feel secure.
I want to learn. I want to understand.
I have learned that it is much easier to give than to receive, but one must be able to accept, to receive, too. It creates vulnerability, but from that, trust can grow.
My purpose is very simple: Live and learn. Repeat. Grow from the lessons. Learn to understand.
My goals in a relationship are to find kindred spirits, and to understand them and love them, and to accept love from them.
2006-09-01 23:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by zen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that all people have a purpose we may never find out that question it could be something simple or complicated.But god put us here for a reason. My goals for a relation ship is to meet my husband half way with every thing to talk instead of yell to love to hate to cry to feel his Paine as he feels mine to share our family you cant have things your way all the time you must learn to share what you are feeling men are not mind readers and need to be spoken to like woman see woman like to be told when there partner or husband is sad hurt angry if there cheating well so do men they just find it harder to open up.It has taken time to get this far with my husband 5 years but we are happy you cant expect things to be perfect as soon as you start out as you need to get to know one and other there loves hates and problems fears all those things so you can have the relation ship you want i have that my goal now is to keep it like that and to raise a happy and healthy family and a happy and healthy relation ship with my husband.Where I'm coming from is to keep an open mind and not to judge others to help and listen.
2006-09-01 23:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question.
My goals are to be loved and to love in my relationship.
It takes alot of trust and understanding.
2006-09-01 23:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest sex with good looking women is all im after but at 21 with 2 kids and a wife its getting hard
2006-09-01 23:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing love and spreading good thought around
2006-09-01 23:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make my mum proud, to make an impact through charity work and to have lots and lots of babies!
2006-09-02 00:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to rid the world of all hope and cheerfulness, we are legion
2006-09-01 23:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that a deep azz Q to deep for me..... thanks for the points
2006-09-01 23:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋