we get aong very very well can speak to each other on hours with out a clue of time & he wants to marry me . but i want a live in relationship, really confused cause i cannot let my folks know about his marital status. i just cannot imagine a life without him please help.
2006-09-01 23:22:24 · 28 answers · asked by prarthana n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you cant imagin a life with out him ? ummm i think his wife says the same thing and since he is married im guessing he said the same to her..... can you really trust a guy that promised before god and family "till do us part" also if you do achieve getting this man, do honestly think you can feel trusting that he wont do it to you with someone else?? hell yours will only be a live in relationship where as he is full blown married and he cant seem to keep it together.
2006-09-01 23:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This will only end with you hurt.Please try to stay away from him.He will never leave his wife,lets be honest here.You are probably younger than him,right? So hes got a hot young thing on the side and the wife at home.Hes in heaven! If he really wanted you he wouldn't lie next to her at night.Her face wouldn't be the first thing he sees in the morning and the last at night.Your judgments clouded to the situation because you are in it.Sometimes it takes an outsider to put it all in perspective, so I hope you take the advice.The excuses 4 why hes with her will never stop.You deserve more than second best.Even if I am completely wrong and he does leave her.Think about it,you took someones husband.The man she loves and who she thinks loves her.Your relationship will always have a cloud over it because "What goes around comes around".Put a end to it now.
2006-09-01 23:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say a 'prarthana' coz only GOD can help you ...However, if the guy is serious abt you he will get a divorce .... If he doesn't, be strong and dump him ... and even if he does love you and DOESN'Tget a divorce believe me you will be labelled as the Other Woman and mistress and a whole lot more ...its not worth the pain, dear.. Besides once he divorces his wife u can live together ... and then decide if u want to get married .... and yr parents certainly won't approve of u living with a married man ..but if he's a divorced they may look at it differently...
2006-09-01 23:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by localblue10866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss, the only one that you cant live without is your God. He's not your God you probably met somewhere and i have this beleive that he's lieing to you maybe wants to use you and drop ya at some stage in the relationship. You mentioned earlier that he's and married and now dating you, i'm sure his wife will never know about this which shows the sign of lack of loyalty in him, he's already cheating on his wife whereas she will feel he still loves her. Um.. I have the feeling that you have a better marriage ahead of you so try to have some patience. You can Quit with him Yes You can, Life without him is Life.
2006-09-01 23:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Raphgate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. He is married.... Walk away. Even tho he makes you feel so special now and life just can't go on without him, it does and it will. You will find someone else. Be the bigger and smarter person and walk away before all the heartbreak begins. If you do it now, yes it will hurt but atleast you will still have your dignity, because what makes you think he won't do the same to you in a couple of years?
2006-09-01 23:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by randomstar200 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good thing girl!!!
He belongs to another woman. He said
those vows,and unless they are getting a
divorce,you have absolutely no right to be
with him or even think he wants you!
Love doesn't do this,and he couldn't be in
love with you girl,don't you get that?
If he wants to marry you,then he's getting
a divorce,right?
If not,run away from him and save yourself
further damage and pain,and his wife could
also hurt you very badly too!!!!
They may even join forces against you,and
it really can and does happen.
2006-09-01 23:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through this myself. We were both married to the wrong people and to top it off he was 1200 miles away and he had minor kids so he was trapped. In a recession people cant just quit good jobs. Ive been through this pain for 5 years. It is h*ll. I married someone else 5 mos ago. If he wont leave her you will have to try to keep living with someone else. good luck.
2006-09-01 23:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I know from personal experience that being in a loveless relationship sux. So if you both feel the same way and he is prepared to devorce his current wife for you go be happy.
Don't worry what your parents or even your friends think. You are the 1 that has to be happy with your own life.
Just have a serious sit down with him and see what he wants.
2006-09-01 23:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run as fast as you can, unless this is the only man left on the planet (not). If he wants a relationship with you, then he should be out of his current relationship. What is holding him there in the first place.
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