I will appreciate ur opinion even if you don't agree with me!
2006-09-01 23:23:56 · 21 answers · asked by vanchit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't go so far as to say it's a lie. But I WOULD say that these words are often uttered hastily and out of context.
Love comes only after you've a known a person long enough. Often several years. Love does not need to be declared. It just shows through little actions, often unintended.
When someone utters "I love you", especially among young people, it can usually be translated into "I am fascinated by you", or "I have a crush on you", or even "I lust after you", depending on the persons and their circumstances.
I had seen an old-time movie once, where a young man approaches the girl's father to ask his permission to marry her. The father, played by James Stewart, asks:"Why do you want to marry my daughter?"
"Because I love her," was the young man's reply.
"Son, you don't have to LOVE a girl in order to marry her. You just have to LIKE her. You must like her a lot. Love comes in much later."
I'll never forget this dialogue.
Hope this answers your query.
2006-09-03 13:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell someone you Love them & you don't mean it....YES! Then the 3 words 'I LOVE YOU' instantly become the biggest lie in the world! Simply b/c you are dishonestly trying to make someone feel something for you that you do not & can not give in return therefore decieving the other & also depriving them of actually experiencing it even though it may be w/ someone else. After being decieve in such a way, we would be way more protective of the love we would give & suspicious and leary of recieving Love to keep from getting hurt again.
2006-09-02 07:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by paigenstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16, you have a whole lifetime to get jaded on love, pace yourself.
The fact, no matter how much love stinks at times, even the most jaded and cynical people believe in true love. They just don't believe it is something that is meant for them because of events in their past, but all of that can change in an instant.
2006-09-02 06:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree with you. May be you think so because never loved.
I love one girl. And I tell her this fraze every day. But it's not a lie, because when It was the first time I said it, it was very difficult. By this fraze I opened my soul.
Think about it. I'm sure you'll find your Love if you believe in it.
2006-09-02 06:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel BY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can b the biggest lie or the biggest truth
only time will tell
2006-09-02 07:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by sexyguyno16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i completely disagree with you.
someone loved me like mad but he got married to someone else, still i say that love is the most beautiful happened in my life, even though i keep missing him, i most of the time cry for him, but still wholeheartedly i love him and will love him till last breathe of my life, so i don't agree with you.
2006-09-04 07:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it is the biggest lie, but it can be the most painful lie, if someone tells you they love you, but they don't really mean it.
2006-09-02 06:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with you. We can not love anybody more then ourselves. We feel that we do, but at last, when it's about deciding my intrest or her intrest, answer is always me.
and thre is nothing wrong in loving ourself at the same time, only we need to realise the reality.
2006-09-02 06:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ritu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it just depend on how you define love and lie...I think the biggest lie in this world is the 3 words " YOU ARE STUPID"!
2006-09-02 06:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by van hastling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 little words and are supposed too alst a lifetime and is refereed to forever.
it depends on how its being used and it takes 2 to make it work. whatever it is take it if its true and leave it if its not. its also something cant be forced.
2006-09-02 06:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋