My son is 13 years old. He has always been a very modest child. During potty training, he didn't want to stand to potty, he wanted to sit. It worked, I was happy, end of story or so I thought. I had a chat with him about his personal hygene... smelling in particular. As all men do, he leaves "skid marks" in his underware. When I mentioned the word bathroom, he started freaking out. He, to this day, still sits to go to the bathroom. I don't care, but his dad does. We have been divorced for 12 years. He visitation has been few and far between, not because of me. He started yelling that the last time he was at his dad's, he walked in on him going to the bathroom and forced him to try and "go" standing up. He tells me there are no locks on the bathroom door. He won't tell me if this was the first time, the last time he visited, several months ago, but since he no longer wants to go to his dads, I can guess its been ongoing and he just now told me. How do I handle this?
2006-08-13
12:30:21
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