First of all, the guy I am referring to is an amazing guy - an ideal boyfriend, really. We started off two years ago by moving REALLY fast and since then, we spent every day together and talked multiple times a day. We are now, as of last Sunday, on a "break" - we are single and want to give eachother some space to do our own thing but we BOTH agree we could get back together if things went right eventually.
I NEVER spent time to myself (working out at the gym, meditating, etc.), and I really RARELY hung out with friends. THIS IS NOT HEALTHY and I realize this now! It was as if we were suffocating ourselves to the point where we didn't know WHO we were individually at all.
My problem, however, is that this is obviously really hard - I care and love him so much and I really DO want to be with him again. How do I do my own thing and then eventually (how long is eventually?) try to get him back! PLEASE HELP - it's hard to sleep at night and eat and get on with my life... :-(
2006-08-13
12:27:58
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