Family & Relationships - 13 August 2006

i wanna join the army but my gf is to afraid that ill leave and never come home and she doesnt want our child to grow up without a father. what should i do?

2006-08-13 12:15:30 · 12 answers · asked by yung_soulja 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 12:15:24 · 14 answers · asked by swept away 1 in Singles & Dating

He smokes weed, drinks everyday, snorts cocaine and he is never at home. I pay all of the bills and buy the groceries. He cooks and cleans occasionally. I work 40+ hours a week and he works 0. I am pregnant with his son, due in September and my lease is up in August. He has made no effort to help me. He sometimes gives his friends hundreds of dollars and he gives me a few dollars rarely and then expects me to pay him back immediately and them whenever they can. He has 4 other kids from 4 other women he does not take care of.

2006-08-13 12:15:00 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 12:14:58 · 18 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Singles & Dating

Whats a good way to appologize to my boyfriend? I called him and tried to get him to let me come over so I could say it to his face, but he didn't want me to so I tried to over the phone but he just wouldnt listen to me, he thought I was still mad, any body have any good ideas of something really sweet I could do? I need help!!!

2006-08-13 12:14:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I keep telling him to get out of my life, but, I always end up taking him back. I know that he is a good person but he just try's my patience. I love him but it seems like I'm the one who puts out the effort to keep our realtionship-?- Does this mean he doesn't care as much as I do or are all men just clueless?

2006-08-13 12:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by bethy_fulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

disrespectful.., Am I wrong in this perception?

2006-08-13 12:14:24 · 3 answers · asked by mark c 1 in Friends

thats what I have heard

2006-08-13 12:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's driving me crazy.Sometimes its unreal the things he thinks up,like the other day a man i've never set eyes on in my life was walking up the street behind,us on the oppisite side,i might add, he accused me of looking at this man who i didnt even see untill my b/f pointed him out.He said he though the man was an x b/f of mine and he didnt like him watching me. That started another row which im sick of having,due 2 his jealously.I know he loves me but why he dont trust me i have no idea, i have never been interested in anyone else so he has no need 2 be like this.Also he told me if i ever went with another man he would kill me..What can i do?

2006-08-13 12:14:13 · 26 answers · asked by l.lo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my boyfriend has moved out of town like 8 hours away and we still go out. we talk 2 eachother everyday still like normal couples. he tells me he love me everyday and all day. he calls me everyday and tell me where he going and what he is going 2 be doing. and yesterday we were on the phone for more than 5 hours mayb about 11 hours and when he was around his friends he wouldnt say nothing so when they left he told me everything that was on his mind right than. he is very sweet but i can't like trust him 8 hours away and i told him he got a little mad so what do i do?

2006-08-13 12:13:46 · 28 answers · asked by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean if she is ugly or not housebroke.

2006-08-13 12:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 12:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by hrmom02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 12:12:19 · 22 answers · asked by samanthethe 1 in Friends

I just finished college, and not really sure how to make friends without the help of classes at school. My coworkers are all quite a bit older, and all women, so I don't really have much in common with them. Any advise?

2006-08-13 12:12:05 · 4 answers · asked by sprout_54880 1 in Friends

2006-08-13 12:11:49 · 36 answers · asked by kunal t 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the simple little things that totally turn a guy on?
not like boring stuff like eye contact, but things that can be said, or little actions...help me out here!

2006-08-13 12:11:07 · 13 answers · asked by Manda K 3 in Singles & Dating

( Not including the honeymoon ) I hear peoples sex life seem to dwindle down abit after getting married prior to how it might have been while engaged. In your opinion, is there any truth to this? Or just a myth.

2006-08-13 12:10:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 12:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by Tucker C 4 in Singles & Dating

I gave this guy my number as you already know but Im scared of what he might think!!Help!!
Ps.He sits right next to me in class so Im always nervouse when I get around him and just think how nervous I will get if he talks trash aabout me!!!

2006-08-13 12:10:10 · 10 answers · asked by princess 1 in Friends

My sister whines and whines for what she wants, and I ask nicely. She gets all the crap she wants while I stand, waiting for a damn answer. They dump all the responsibility on me, while she plays with her barbies or whatever crap she came up with. Most people just say she's so cute, while I'm standing there, serving her. What am I, a f*cking retard to everyone? Am I not as good as her? Do people hate me because I'm not cute?

2006-08-13 12:10:02 · 13 answers · asked by UnR3aL 5 in Family

me and this guy i'm dating met up last night and we went on a double date with his friends from work and my cousin we went to the club and after the club we went to the beach to walk around after that we were sitting in the car my cousin and the other guy were in the backseat making out and me and my guy were in the front talking when they were telling us to do the same but my guy was a little sleepy so i wanted him to relax a little and they told him to wake up over and over i was fine with it but they kept telling me to kiss him on the cheek after a while they kept pushing me he said........." if she kisses me on the cheek i will get naked and be on her".....i wasn't sure if that was a compliment i'm confused.....what did he mean by that?

2006-08-13 12:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have had a bad week. His aunt passed away, were supposed to move in together in 3 weeks (nothing has been bought yet), we had an argument because one of his friend whom is a girl keeps calling him @ 4am... Honestly, when I asked him about the phone calls @ 4am, he right away got mad and defensive. I then told him if it was nothing then why was he getting so aggravated. I trust him 100% but I dunno why I had some doubts about him. He last called me on Friday night (after our argument) and told me he was going to be with his cousin for the weekend. I txt messaged him and called him, and never got a reply back. It's Sunday 7pm right now, and I'm worried. No contact what so ever... Does he only want some space, did I scare him away... I need some insight on this situation. We've been together for over 2 years and this is killing me inside. :(

2006-08-13 12:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by izabelcka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 12:07:23 · 27 answers · asked by lusaisthebest 3 in Family

Do anyone wants 2 chat with a basketball babe if u do email me my email is latesha_mcdonald@yahoo.com

2006-08-13 12:06:49 · 3 answers · asked by L-tee21 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have a friend, lets call her Amy. I have another friend lets call her, Mary. {not actual names.}
So this morning Amy calls me and she's all, "GUESS WHAT MARY IS CUTTING HERSELF OVER TOM {not real name}! BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW I KNOW."
So apparently this is what happened Amy set up a teen advice e-mail and then convinced Mary to e-mail her without telling Mary she was the one runnning it. Mary e-mails the advice thing talking about a guy she likes won't notice her. So then Amy thought it would be funny if she made it into something big. So she called me and told me that Mary was cutting. I call Mary and tell her out of pure concern for her. To make a long story short Amy thought it would be funny to call everyone and tell them that Mary was a cutter. Mary furious and embaressed, has not forgiven her. So Amy calls me crying begging me to be her friend again. So should I forgive her? Because I'm really confused.

2006-08-13 12:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

should a young man just marry at a tender age because he have enough money to feed his wife without reaching 20years?

2006-08-13 12:05:59 · 31 answers · asked by Sir Joe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 12:05:37 · 5 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Friends

I favorite boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. Now all I have been doing is eating junk food and drinking soda. He has been flirting with me now because he just broke up with his other girlfriend. (He wasn't cheating) Now he tells me I have to dance with a boy a school dance. I still have been upsite and I still have been eating junk sence the day we broke up. What do I do?

2006-08-13 12:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok guys see dis is the situation.( ders this guy we know eachother about a year and i was away from him for a few months but he keeps in touch with me all de time and wantS me back, BUT he's younger than me for bout 10 months and dat we dun have sex 2gether I mean i dun wanna have , so he was saying that he can't stop havin sex with others in case we dun have dat relationship and i said ok so we cant be 2gether andd recently he told me he change his mind if i agree to be with him ,so he won't go for sex with others and dat he would wait until i would be ready to have with him and that he would be saticfied just bein with me , ( who said i would be ready to have ....with him) any how u think i have to beleive him or wat ???? besides i have prob with his bein younger than me , am 22 his 21 and umm wat do u think?

2006-08-13 12:04:53 · 13 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Friends

I am divorced with 2 children. My husband and I are different religions. He held a religious ceremony for our daughter that I just found out about from a 3rd party even though the event happened 3 months ago. I am extremely upset that my daughter did not share this information with me. She spends 2 weekends a month with her father and we always discuss what they did that weekend. I just cant get over the hurt that she did not share this with me.

I think compounding my upset feelings is the feelings I have had for at least the past year or more that I am the parent who provides music lessons, soccer, skating, running, fancy birthday parties, buys the name brand clothes, buys her stuff just because I love her. I received no child support for over 2 years and struggled beyond words to just pay my basic living expenses and killed myself to come up with money so she would not have to do without swimming lessons, etc. and she could be just like her friends.

I am hurt and confused. Any advice?

2006-08-13 12:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by njmom 3 in Marriage & Divorce